The Doctor (post: 1557217) wrote:I recommend the series "Finding your life partner" by Pastor Joseph Prince. It really shows finding a life partner in a new light.
As much as I hold the CAA members in high regard and often am amazed at their various talents, I doubt they could see much of you beyond what you post here without knowing you in person for a while.dothackzero (post: 1557262) wrote:Thanks, I do need to find it. btw, I already listen to him, but I'v haven't heard about it yet. Also check out
Also take a listen to the marriage enrichment sermons from Keith Moore. He's helped me alot to grow as a Christian, but yeah he's marriage stuff is pretty good too.
http://www.moorelife.org/freedownloads.php
btw, Just because you guys see the what you guys see as the more selfish part of me wanting to get married. That doesn't mean that I'm not thinking about what I need to be to be a good boyfriend/husband. Basically you guys were pretty much seeing the selfish side in me.
dothackzero wrote:Basically you guys were pretty much seeing the selfish side in me.
Nate (post: 1557450) wrote:Judging from the fact that you have made constant threads about this topic and are always whining about how you need to get married so badly then I'm doubtful that there's any other side in you.
If there is it's clearly much smaller compared to the selfish side. That's unhealthy.
K. Ayato (post: 1557483) wrote:Define "little". Your past threads and all your posts in this one don't seem a "little" obsessive.
Mr. SmartyPants (post: 1557494) wrote:Unless you have a legit diagnosis from a physician or therapist that you have OCD, please don't say you have OCD... And if you have, are you going through some sort of treatment for it?
It's like the most common disorder that people claim to have. When really they're far from being OCD.
dothackzero wrote:nah, I've been dignosed for it before.
Nate (post: 1557497) wrote:You ever thought about getting medication? Treatment?
I mean if I went to the doctor and they said "You have pneumonia" I wouldn't go "Well don't that beat all!" and then just walk out and start telling everyone "HEY EVERYONE GUESS WHAT I HAVE PNEUMONIA THAT'S PROBABLY WHY I FEEL SO SICK ALL THE TIME" and then sit around and do nothing about it.
K. Ayato (post: 1557546) wrote:Quite frankly, I don't believe anything you've posted in this thread or the similar ones you made in the past. Know why? 'Cause all you have done is put blame on other people and circumstances, and that is a real dumb and immature thing, rather than come out and admit FIRSTHAND that you are selfish, extremely obsessive, and unwilling to take any responsibility for whatever problems you are facing.
All you've done is the opposite here, and that's why Nate, MSP, myself, and others can't take you seriously. Unless you finally own up to your problems, and stop saying it's everyone else's fault (and now OCD) that you're alone and miserable 'cause no one likes you, and start getting out there and doing something about it, no one is gonna see you as a maturing young man. Not on CAA, nor the people you encounter in real life.
dothackzero wrote:I am on meds for the anxiety(Note that my obsessions usually a lot more fear based). It just never had an effect on this area.
Xeno (post: 1557552) wrote:Completely agree with this assessment. You need to get out and start socializing with people, anyone really. Doesn't matter their gender, and the intent needs to be to just build your friend base (this has been said before). Yeah you say you have OCD with fear-based obsessions, which I guess I can buy, but people with OCD overcome their obsessions all the time, it's not an excuse to not do something, that's laziness and unwillingness to chance. Talking to new people is going to feel forced at first, but it'll get easier with time. Try hanging out with co-workers before or after work if you have a job, that should help get you started.
Also, in before declaration of Aspergers.
Mr. SmartyPants (post: 1557633) wrote:Dothack perhaps your OCD and anxiety is your challenge to overcome.
dothackzero (post: 1557683) wrote:It is, and God will help me beat it. Though I do know I havehttp://www.christiananime.net/newre ... &p=1557683 selfish side, I'm just saying that's probably what most of you guys are seeing.
Also, in before declaration of Aspergers.
dothackzero (post: 1557955) wrote:So how do I become content while I'm actively waiting?
I suggest finding a hobby that you can invest your time towards. Do you like building things (wooden or metal)? Playing sports? Computers? Drawing? Writing? There are many different hobbies one can have and devote their free time towards. Like MSP said, find your interests (besides finding a wife) and pursue them.dothackzero (post: 1557955) wrote:So how do I become content while I'm actively waiting?
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