http://www.music123.com has some pretty good deals on drums and all other musical instruments/equipment. I bought a five-piece kit made by Verve and several extra cymbals and stands. I currently have everything I need, although sometime in the near future I will get better beater heads for the snare/bass/toms. I use Vic Firth classic metal sticks. They are made of hickory and are very high-quality. I have a DW Pacifice DP402 double bass pedal. Here are my cymbals:
13" Wuhan high-hat
14", 16", 18" Paiste PST5 thin crash cymbals
20" Wuhan china cymbal
20" Pearl ride cymbal
8", 10" Wuhan splash cymbals
I also have some moongel pads for tone control on my toms and to keep the snare from ringing too much.
So far, everything that I've bought for my kit has cost a total of a little over $1,000.
I am teaching myself drumming, but I do have a drumming instructional dvd--Flo Mounier: Extreme Metal Drumming 101, which is a two disc set. The first disc is instructional, and includes some basic hand and foot techniques, warmups and stretches to do before you start playing, speed/endurance/control excercises, how to tune and position your kit, and basic techniques utilized in extreme metal like the grind beat, blast beat, and gravity blast (this is actually fairly advanced, but he demonstrates how to do it). The second disc has videos of several of Flo's drum solos and some recordings of Cryptopsy performances. You can learn more about it at
http://www.flomounier.com. There is a 3-minute excerpt of a 17-minute solo Flo did in the media section if you would like to see him in action.
I will take a picture of my kit and post a link to it sometime tomorrow.