I am convinced that my sound card (nForce) fits into the "hardware wavetable" category... however, after extensive research, I found out that the newer versions of the nForce drivers do not support dls or sf2 files
So, it appears that I'm not able to use all the .sf2 files that I found with my sound card. I tried older versions of the drivers that did have .sf2 support, and it didn't work, and it cause my system a lot of grief (flash files, in particular, wouldn't act propperly).
HOWEVER, I found this program called midig. It is a spanish program that acts as a "software wavetable synthesizer", I guess you could say. It came loaded with .sf2 files, and it plays midis with these sound fonts just wonderfully. However, it has no playlist support, so for every midi I want to play, I have to manually find and load it. Gets kinda old after a while, so my question is... are there other software wavetable synthesizer programs like this out there that have playlist support?
Edit: Nevermind, I found a wonderful program called Timidity++ that solved all my sf2 wants