So for the past three months i lied to my parents. I had a boyfriend and i'm not allowed to have one. I liked him a lot, and all he wanted for his birthday was a kiss, but i said no. i didn't feel right kissing him when i wasn't even allowed to have a boyfriend, so i said no. he freaked out and broke up with me.
we have broken up about 5 times already but it wasn't till this one that i realized that i was a total loser for liking him. he falls for every girl he sees and he sort of liked other girls while i was his girlfriend.
now i'm torn to bits and i feel totally lost. i lied to my parents and i hate myself for being so stupid. now i don't even know where i am with my walk with God since i've been ignoring him for three months.
could you guys pray for me?
I feel so lost.....
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I feel so lost.....
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zelda - Posts: 237
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I will pray.
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get back in the Bible every day. I'll pray for you.
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What A MESS.
Yes, I can imagine this being horrible, I think it's incorrect for your parents to prohibit you having a Boyfriend, I never had one, and my parents seem to not care if I get one or not ( I think they me even like it ), but I can imagine this being a total heartbreak for you.
I'm going to pray, -is your ex ( now ) even saved though??
And GET INTO THE WORD! 3 months...O_O
ouch.
Yes, I can imagine this being horrible, I think it's incorrect for your parents to prohibit you having a Boyfriend, I never had one, and my parents seem to not care if I get one or not ( I think they me even like it ), but I can imagine this being a total heartbreak for you.
I'm going to pray, -is your ex ( now ) even saved though??
And GET INTO THE WORD! 3 months...O_O
ouch.
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Calm down, Ryupower. Parents wanting to limit children dating is a touchy subject, and you shouldn't condemn their actions without knowing the whole situation. Regardless, I will pray for you and your situation Zelda. Breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend is hard, and I am sure it is even harder because you feel like you can't seek the support of your parents. I would encourage you to talk to them about it, and will pray that this situation works out well.
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Puritan wrote:Calm down, Ryupower. Parents wanting to limit children dating is a touchy subject, and you shouldn't condemn their actions without knowing the whole situation. Regardless, I will pray for you and your situation Zelda. Breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend is hard, and I am sure it is even harder because you feel like you can't seek the support of your parents. I would encourage you to talk to them about it, and will pray that this situation works out well.
why is everyone thinking I'm not calm? O___o;;
I am calm, and all I was really trying to do is comfort her a little...o.O
other then that, yeah what he said!
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Ryupower - Posts: 1056
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Hum... yeah, I'll pray for you! I know how it can tear you up to have a relationship that your parents wouldn't approve of. It's really hard on your relationship with the Lord. But now, you've had some self-examination and you realize what you need to do. Just repent and pick up right where you left off with God. Spend some time with Him, obey Him and He'll bring you right through this uncertain situation.
Isaiah 54:8
[I]With a little wrath I hid My face from you for a moment; But with everlasting kindness I will have mercy on you,â€
Isaiah 54:8
[I]With a little wrath I hid My face from you for a moment; But with everlasting kindness I will have mercy on you,â€
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you know what...times like this..are why you wish you would have listened to your parents. "Honor your mother and father, for you shall live a long life." It's a commandment....but I'm one to talk.....because I too have been lying to my mother about something...for much longer than 3 months....I will pray for you as I will need your prayers^^
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I'll pray for you, and feel free to PM me if you ever need someone to talk to!
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Thou my great Father, I Thy true son;
Thou in me dwelling, and I with Thee one.
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Raise Thou me heavenward, O Power of my power.
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High King of Heaven, my victory won,
May I reach Heaven’s joys, O bright Heaven’s Sun!
Heart of my own heart, whatever befall,
Still be my Vision, O Ruler of all.
Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art
Thou my best Thought, by day or by night,
Waking or sleeping, Thy presence my light.
Be Thou my Wisdom, and Thou my true Word;
I ever with Thee and Thou with me, Lord;
Thou my great Father, I Thy true son;
Thou in me dwelling, and I with Thee one.
Be Thou my battle Shield, Sword for the fight;
Be Thou my Dignity, Thou my Delight;
Thou my soul’s Shelter, Thou my high Tower:
Raise Thou me heavenward, O Power of my power.
Riches I heed not, nor man’s empty praise,
Thou mine Inheritance, now and always:
Thou and Thou only, first in my heart,
High King of Heaven, my Treasure Thou art.
High King of Heaven, my victory won,
May I reach Heaven’s joys, O bright Heaven’s Sun!
Heart of my own heart, whatever befall,
Still be my Vision, O Ruler of all.
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