So Confused

[~darkelfgirl~]

I feel so selfish posting in here since I haven't been on CAA or here as often as I used to, but I really need prayer though this situation is trivial. -___-

I think that I may have unintentionally hurt someone. It's really complicated, so I'll keep things short.

There's this guy that I've liked for a month or two, now. The thing is, he had an interest in me, but I think I may have destroyed this by my shyness, which he probably took as disinterest. The thing is, he's been actually trying to get my attention, but I always chicken out and blatantly avoid him (what can I say? A guy I like has never attempted to talk to me before).

What's strange is that everything seemed to be Ok last week ... and then this week, he just seems so ... cold. I just don't understand, since we don't even know each other! He's also from a different country, so my attitude could be seen as negative. Plus with all the effort he made, I think he feels embarrassed -___-.

I'm just so confused because I am still interested in him. I'm praying for an opportunity to actually talk to him (without him exploding on me LOL--Lord, please no--because today, the coldness was strong) to see what's going on, and if this is a minor misunderstanding blown out of proportion. (I pray he doesn't think I'm playing with his heart, or anything! That would be so awful ...)

So yes, please, please give a short prayer for me. And for him, too. o__O I'm all jumbled inside. Please pray that this situation can get resolved, soon--positively!

Peace and God Bless,

DEG

P.S. Sorry for the jumbled sentences ^^

[Peanut]

You may want to make an opportunity instead of waiting for one. I understand very well that that may be hard, awkward and incredibly uncomfortable but if you want him to understand that you are interested you have to actually show interest.

Anyway, I'll be praying.

[Cloud500]

Hmmm... This is somewhat similar to something I'm having to deal with right now. And like Peanut said, you may just have to make a moment(I'm having difficulty doing that in my situation). Hopefully everything works out. I'll be praying.

[LadyRushia]

Deg, men are confusing and so are we. The end.

No really, I know how you feel. I'm pretty sure I've done the same thing. It's a weird reaction--you'd think that you'd relish the attention if you're not used to being liked, but the opposite happens. Your situation sounds like a shoujo manga, though, so talk to him and see what happens! XD

[Riggidig]

You have to keep in mind that maybe his coldness isn't due to you. He might be going through a rough time with some personal/family issues at home. Maybe you should ask him if he's ok, tell him you notice that he's not his usual self. Who knows? Maybe he really needs someone to talk to at the moment.

Anyway, I'll be praying as well :-)

[Tsukuyomi]

Is even small talk awkward for the two of you ^^? You should just continue to talk to him and get to know him ^^ You sticking around through this cold stage should prove to him that you do care (or, something like that) ^^

I'll be praying too, and I second what Rushiar says ^^ Men are confusing just as us girls are ^^ Just hang in there, Deg ^^

[danceljoy]

Hmmm... Just smile and make him feel comfortable

Praying that you may have the opportunity to know him, to make God's love known.

[RandomBurrito]

Wow. I'm sorta going through the same thing right now. I've noticed that this one guy has been trying to get my attention but because of my shyness I tend to accidentally avoid him because I don't know what to say or I feel like I'm going to embarrass myself. I too have been praying about my situation. I will pray for yours. And maybe you two will become very close and God's Will be done!

God bless!