Simply put: Loneliness and insomnia and a relative gone astray

[Spector]

Don't want to rant like I usually do, so I'll be simple. ..ahem:

AH IZ LONALEH!

4 years without even a look my way is too long! I'm slipping back into depression. 99% of the girls I know are under 18, and the only few I know aren't Christian or have boyfriends.

Oh, and I can't sleep, hence this being posted at 3 in the morning.

Laying here trying to sleep, I had a random thought about a relative. I won't say who, or anything, but I can say she used to be very "strict" in her life about various things in her walk. She was also in a very emotionally abusive relationship for many years, but from what I could see was very close to God. But she finally broke from the relationship, and found someone who actually loved her. But he wasn't Christian. I feel sorry for her, cause of what she went through, but now she's put her new husband before everything, including her walk, just so he won't loose him. Now she's not even the same person, doing everything she so opposed to before.

Please pray she returns to God, even it means her heart to be Brocken again. I know God would reward her for it.

[LadyRushia]

I merged your two threads and posts together. You don't have to make separate threads for separate issues; you can just put them all in one place if you have a few things going on at the same time.

I feel you on the loneliness thing. It was something I had to deal with all this year at school. It seemed that the guys didn't even want to talk to me, much less be my friend. Shyness on their front makes a lot of sense, though, and I'll say the same for girls. Girls are just as shy to talk to new guys/people they don't know as guys are. My friends have given me some good advice, though. If you go looking for a relationship/if you're constantly thinking about this stuff and how you don't have any of it, then you won't find it; but if you focus on other things and just kind of live your life and make friends with people/girls like you would anyone else, then you'll probably come on to something. I know it's easier said than done.

This might sound strange, but you might want to take up something like swing dancing. Not only is it a lot of fun, but you'll meet plenty of girls doing it. It doesn't have to be swing dancing, but maybe just something that would get you to interact more with the opposite sex. That kind of thing helps boost your confidence a bit.

[Spector]

Wow, funny thing. I was just thinking it might be fun to take up dancing lessons after I put my second post up. Heck, wednesday I plan on dancing like the white kid iam, in public places and putting it up on YouTube.

[Tsukuyomi]

Wow, funny thing. I was just thinking it might be fun to take up dancing lessons after I put my second post up. Heck, wednesday I plan on dancing like the white kid iam, in public places and putting it up on YouTube.

Lol, you should share them with us when you get them up

I'll be praying for the both of you ^___^ I hope everything works out Please keep us updated ^^