my weekend: originally posted in general

[Dot]

my weekend was suppose to be fun and exciting. Dubrena's parents were coming out, mom and dad were coming out, and dubrena and i both had shows (dubrena's my best friend... best one i've ever had). I was going to dress up and be all pretty for kelvin (my boyfriend). We were going to go to the symphony and philharmonic orchestras, we were going to listen to/ play beautiful music, we were going to eat food and fellowship with one another. Our parents were going to meet, they were going to become friends, and they were going to LIKE it lol. It was my last concert with the philharmonic orchestra for the season! This was a big show!! a big, busy weekend! But it all went terribly wrong.
My ex, chad, showed up on friday evening. That doesn't seem like a huge deal... i mean, it's just an ex boyfriend. This ex boyfriend has been incredibly abusive, very manipulative, and very very self centered, so i didn't want to see him anyway. Factor into this equation the fact that he showed up unannounced. I HATE surprise visits, especially when i have something big going on. It stresses me out. When chad and i started dating i told him point blank, “you do not drive up to the city for a surprise visit. If you come to the city, you give me warning.â€

[Roz]

Good night girl. Everything and it's brother happened to you. Way to stay with it. Hang in there, God is on your side all the way!!!! Praying for you.

[MBlight]

My word... sounds like quite a weekend...

Get some rest, tomorrow can only be better! In the meantime I'll be praying for you

[Dot]

thanks all for your prayers and concern.
the shock has worn off, and i'm able to stand up to my mother again and put a stop to her attitudes. another thing that's really helping is i'm staying at my friend's place while she's in germany. she lives alone in a little one room flat, and it's perfect. it's not in the quietest side of town but i'm free of the stress of a roommate and i'm away from a telephone (mom can't find me!!). yes, things are looking up. thank you again for all your prayers, and please continue to do so as i make a decision of whether or not i'm going to move this summer/fall.