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Prayer Needed - Tearing up of a family

Postby Kunoichi » Thu Jan 15, 2009 4:50 pm

Hi all,

I know this was touched on in one of my other prayer requests. But its happening again. My soon to be SIL is threatening to take the baby to Tennesee tomorrow. If that occurs, I am hoping my BIL will attempt to do a divorce and gain custody. This fight occurred over nothing more than a fight because SHE didn't have anyone to watch the baby tomorrow (she hasn't watched him in over a week and doesn't have school tomorrow so there isn't a reason she CAN'T watch him, she is just chosing not to).

Please pray for the babies safety. If he ends up going with her, I worry about her killing him or harming him as she is a angry bipolar (meaning versus getting sad, she gets mad and at times violent).

She is untreated, un medicated and in denial about her illness. We have tried to get her to get help but she refuses though she has been admitted one time (something she did so we can't use it).

Please pray. Thank you!

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Postby 12praiseGOD » Thu Jan 15, 2009 5:04 pm

Definitely praying! May God be with you guys!
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Postby Roz » Fri Jan 16, 2009 1:52 pm

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Postby Kunoichi » Fri Jan 16, 2009 2:50 pm

things are definetly tense within the family. She hasn't left...yet. But she keeps threatening.
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Postby RandomBurrito » Fri Jan 16, 2009 5:07 pm

Kunoichi (post: 1281801) wrote:Hi all,

I know this was touched on in one of my other prayer requests. But its happening again. My soon to be SIL is threatening to take the baby to Tennesee tomorrow. If that occurs, I am hoping my BIL will attempt to do a divorce and gain custody. This fight occurred over nothing more than a fight because SHE didn't have anyone to watch the baby tomorrow (she hasn't watched him in over a week and doesn't have school tomorrow so there isn't a reason she CAN'T watch him, she is just chosing not to).

Please pray for the babies safety. If he ends up going with her, I worry about her killing him or harming him as she is a angry bipolar (meaning versus getting sad, she gets mad and at times violent).

She is untreated, un medicated and in denial about her illness. We have tried to get her to get help but she refuses though she has been admitted one time (something she did so we can't use it).

Please pray. Thank you!

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Postby 12praiseGOD » Fri Jan 16, 2009 8:24 pm

Still praying!
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Postby Tsukuyomi » Fri Jan 16, 2009 10:02 pm

They have mine as well ^__^

My advice would that the baby's father take him. Not like kidnap or anything like that, but away so your sister in-law can't take him. She's mentally unstable right? I'm sure that's proven in her actions.

I'm also NOT saying your brother in-law should take the baby away from his mother, but it may be the best for the time being O.O Like, drop in off at his grandparents house or something like that, so the two can talk one on one without any distractions o_o
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Postby Kunoichi » Sat Jan 17, 2009 6:19 am

If he were to take the baby from her and not allow her access...then she could sue for full custody as that would be considered "kidnapping". Same thing for her, if she leaves the state and barrs him access then she would be "kidnapping".

Apparently things are "fine" over there....they keep writing it off as another one of her "episodes" and not trying to deal with it. Sigh*

Then my fiancee's sister...she is driving me up the wall. I know its her just being a teenager..but she has such freaking mood swings due to her medication and she struggles with the fact she has epilepsy. She told her mom last night (while we are out celebrating fiancee's bday and of course its gotta be about her)...that she doesn't want to be different. She has epilepsy, her life IS different (this argument stemmed because a fair is in town and she wants to go on all the rides. This is difficult becuase they don't know what causes her seizures. So she has to be careful.

Sigh* i know this is prolly "normal" family dynamics but i really don't know how to handle it.

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Postby animewarrior » Sat Jan 17, 2009 11:31 am

I'll be praying for you. I know someone with bi-polar and things were really bad there when he wasn't taking his meds... so yeah I really hope the baby keeps safe and may God's warring angels protect it. I pray that your sister-in-law is convicted about her problem and seeks out medical help. As your finacee's sister situation goes, God grant you patience and let the sister realize that even if she IS different, she is still a child of God and is special to him. Please give her wisdom to see that she is loved and to stop acting so childish about the issue. In Jesus Name I Pray, Amen
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Postby Kunoichi » Sun Jan 18, 2009 8:14 am

mom is taking baby today :( dad i'm hoping will file for divorce and sue for full custody....she is psycho and while i don't like divorce....i don't know how else he can get the child :(
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Postby Kunoichi » Sun Jan 18, 2009 10:20 am

The father isn't going to fight for the custody of the baby....I can do nothing but pray :(
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Postby Paxdroca » Sun Jan 18, 2009 11:24 am

D... I hate people like that....
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Postby K. Ayato » Sun Jan 18, 2009 11:57 am

Praying, Kun.
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Postby 12praiseGOD » Sun Jan 18, 2009 12:57 pm

Definitely praying!
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Postby RandomBurrito » Sun Jan 18, 2009 4:19 pm

I said another prayer! I really hope everything is going to be ok :)
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Postby Kunoichi » Sun Jan 18, 2009 7:31 pm

My fiancee and I are both very torn up about this. We feel as if he is our own child, being ripped from us. :( :( Please pray for peace about this situation and that the Lord will bless the child and be with him.

As well as that I will forgive her for her actions, as I am trying to not be hatred feeling.
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Postby RandomBurrito » Sun Jan 18, 2009 9:03 pm

In Jesus name! Keep praying ok? This is a verse that I had recently found and that I want to keep close to me as well:

Mark 11:24 - Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.

God bless you, you're fiancee, the baby and your family!
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Postby Wind » Mon Jan 19, 2009 2:59 am

I am so totally going through situations with my baby too and I completely agree that this needs prayer I am here for you
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Postby shiroineko » Mon Jan 19, 2009 11:55 am

praying for you and your family Kunoichi
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Postby RandomBurrito » Mon Jan 19, 2009 3:10 pm

Wind (post: 1282566) wrote:I am so totally going through situations with my baby too and I completely agree that this needs prayer I am here for you


I said a prayer for you too. God bless!
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Postby Kunoichi » Mon Jan 19, 2009 6:42 pm

Ty all for your prayers....she left with the baby this morning...please pray that i will not carry hatred for her. I do not know if its "wrong" to feel anger at all this though...and sorrow. So many things seem so much a "grey" area for me.
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Postby K. Ayato » Mon Jan 19, 2009 10:22 pm

It's ok to be angry, if it's righteous anger. And it's also normal to feel sorrow because of where it leaves you and the rest of the family. Praying things work out.
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Postby Kunoichi » Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:53 am

Dad is going to tennesee to live with the mom and baby so I am praying it works out and since he is moving out, we might get his house..which is a yay for us. we will know in another month or so
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Postby Roz » Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:19 pm

Praying for you and the family.
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Postby RandomBurrito » Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:23 pm

Kunoichi (post: 1284015) wrote:Dad is going to tennesee to live with the mom and baby so I am praying it works out and since he is moving out, we might get his house..which is a yay for us. we will know in another month or so


That sounds good! I pray it all works out for you all! In Jesus name!!! :thumb:
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Postby Shilohan ninja » Wed Jan 28, 2009 1:36 pm

For you and yours, I will keep praying, dear sister. May our Father surround you all with His peace and wisdom right now, in Christ's holy and precious name. Amen.

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