Urgent....Terrified!!!
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OH My, you ARE in ALL of OUR PRAYERS! Please stay safe and never be alone. get a taser and some mace if you can. You can find them online pretty easily. (My mom plans to get me one once I start working.) But PLEASE remain safe and I will be praying for you every day! God will handle this! There is always a reason for things like this.
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Kurama - Posts: 679
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Kunoichi,
From a mother point of view, you can take this anyway you want to:
1: Call the police and get it on the records and get a restraining order even if the is no proof of stalking, tell them the whole story don't leave anything out.
2: First get a tazor or Pepper spray before you decide on a gun (Self-Defense) if you are afraid for your life and your family and your boyfriends life.
3: Make sure if or when the PI finds you document everything----phone calls, threats, damage to your property etc. so that the police can arrest him & the PI for terroistic threats & harm.
4: Keep in touch with your family let them know anything and everything that happens.
5: Be careful because the PI can track you if you apply for a job(via SS#) just try to keep safe and always know that you have your family's support.
From a mother point of view, you can take this anyway you want to:
1: Call the police and get it on the records and get a restraining order even if the is no proof of stalking, tell them the whole story don't leave anything out.
2: First get a tazor or Pepper spray before you decide on a gun (Self-Defense) if you are afraid for your life and your family and your boyfriends life.
3: Make sure if or when the PI finds you document everything----phone calls, threats, damage to your property etc. so that the police can arrest him & the PI for terroistic threats & harm.
4: Keep in touch with your family let them know anything and everything that happens.
5: Be careful because the PI can track you if you apply for a job(via SS#) just try to keep safe and always know that you have your family's support.
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What I believe is what I will become. I believe I am special and that there will never be another like me...not ever. I believe I have been blessed with certain talents that will allow me to serve a purpose higher that my own. I believe we are all connected and that despite our differences we are one. I believe in the power or love and its ability to heal all wounds. I believe there are no acts of coincidence only acts of God that work miraculously in my life. I believe that the lessons I learn will be the lessons I teach.
My Family: SP1, Raven, and my other daughter soon to be named in 2 years, PcSavvy (My Sister)
Been Adopted by: Shadowchild,Mega.EXE
My Adoptions: Lunis--who has my unconditional love and support.
Shadowchild: who can win an argument with anyone (Hehe)
My Boys in Arms (The ones I'll try to keep from wandering the path of goofiness & craziness:dizzy: ): Yahshua(:angel: on his shoulder watching over him), Nate (AKA Kaemmerite), Sigmaknight, Cap'nNick, BigSleepJ,Scribs, YeshuaKnight, Linkquest, Mr. Smarty Pants, Cephas VII, Kkun, and AziertheSwordsman
My Girls in Arms (The ones I'll be looking out for from time to time): Sakura15, CrimsonRyu17, PrincessZelda, Himura Kaoru, Iz&Trigun4life, Lunis, Jesusfreak84,Shadowchild
And some new friends: JadenMetal,Mithrandir, ShatterHeartArk, and few others
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What I believe is what I will become. I believe I am special and that there will never be another like me...not ever. I believe I have been blessed with certain talents that will allow me to serve a purpose higher that my own. I believe we are all connected and that despite our differences we are one. I believe in the power or love and its ability to heal all wounds. I believe there are no acts of coincidence only acts of God that work miraculously in my life. I believe that the lessons I learn will be the lessons I teach.
My Family: SP1, Raven, and my other daughter soon to be named in 2 years, PcSavvy (My Sister)
Been Adopted by: Shadowchild,Mega.EXE
My Adoptions: Lunis--who has my unconditional love and support.
Shadowchild: who can win an argument with anyone (Hehe)
My Boys in Arms (The ones I'll try to keep from wandering the path of goofiness & craziness:dizzy: ): Yahshua(:angel: on his shoulder watching over him), Nate (AKA Kaemmerite), Sigmaknight, Cap'nNick, BigSleepJ,Scribs, YeshuaKnight, Linkquest, Mr. Smarty Pants, Cephas VII, Kkun, and AziertheSwordsman
My Girls in Arms (The ones I'll be looking out for from time to time): Sakura15, CrimsonRyu17, PrincessZelda, Himura Kaoru, Iz&Trigun4life, Lunis, Jesusfreak84,Shadowchild
And some new friends: JadenMetal,Mithrandir, ShatterHeartArk, and few others
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HitomiYuriko - Posts: 271
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HitomiYuriko (post: 1229046) wrote:Kunoichi,
From a mother point of view, you can take this anyway you want to:
1: Call the police and get it on the records and get a restraining order even if the is no proof of stalking, tell them the whole story don't leave anything out.
2: First get a tazor or Pepper spray before you decide on a gun (Self-Defense) if you are afraid for your life and your family and your boyfriends life.
3: Make sure if or when the PI finds you document everything----phone calls, threats, damage to your property etc. so that the police can arrest him & the PI for terroistic threats & harm.
4: Keep in touch with your family let them know anything and everything that happens.
5: Be careful because the PI can track you if you apply for a job(via SS#) just try to keep safe and always know that you have your family's support.
I'm going to get a gun because he is a human weapon (over 32 years of martial arts experience..and navy seal)
Thankyou for the advice for the SS...didn't think about that. I will document everything.
It hurts more than anything that he is doing this...he was ok until the last 2 years.....or else maybe i was just blind
Thankyou all for the support...i'm just trying to not be afraid. so i'm trusting in the Most High. I'm not perfect...but i know he will always be there fore me..
I am on the forefront of battle against the demons of earth. All Praise and Glory be given to God Forever and Ever!
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Kunoichi - Posts: 1219
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Maybe you can meet some people that had experience in the Delta Force, Green Berets. I'll be keeping you in my prayers.
Some of my favorite scriptures.
Psalm91
A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.
Because thou hast made the LORD, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;
There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.
Hebrews 4-4
1Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it.
2For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it.
3For we which have believed do enter into rest, as he said, As I have sworn in my wrath, if they shall enter into my rest: although the works were finished from the foundation of the world.
4For he spake in a certain place of the seventh day on this wise, And God did rest the seventh day from all his works.
James 4
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
Revelation 22:14
Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.
Psalm91
A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.
Because thou hast made the LORD, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;
There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.
Hebrews 4-4
1Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it.
2For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it.
3For we which have believed do enter into rest, as he said, As I have sworn in my wrath, if they shall enter into my rest: although the works were finished from the foundation of the world.
4For he spake in a certain place of the seventh day on this wise, And God did rest the seventh day from all his works.
James 4
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
Revelation 22:14
Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.
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Gabriel 9.0 - Posts: 736
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I'll definitely be praying, and, so I don't have to retype everything people have been saying (and I'm sure you've read it several times over), I agree with everything people have been saying.
And we all make mistakes...the point is that we learn from them, tell God we're sorry, and move on with our lives, perhaps a little wiser than we were beforehand. But it's important to realize that we can't always get ourselves out of pits we tend to fall into...that's where we need the support from God, and our family and friends.
I'll be praying for ya, sister.
And we all make mistakes...the point is that we learn from them, tell God we're sorry, and move on with our lives, perhaps a little wiser than we were beforehand. But it's important to realize that we can't always get ourselves out of pits we tend to fall into...that's where we need the support from God, and our family and friends.
I'll be praying for ya, sister.
RESPECT THE UNBORN AND CHOOSE LIFE...your mother did.
"Do not underestimate the power of the muffin! The muffin will smite all those who question it! The muffin will crush all nay-sayers! He who controls the muffin shall control the entire world!" -Taishi, Comic Party English Dub
"Do not underestimate the power of the muffin! The muffin will smite all those who question it! The muffin will crush all nay-sayers! He who controls the muffin shall control the entire world!" -Taishi, Comic Party English Dub
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AsianBlossom - Posts: 1376
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ShiroiHikari - Posts: 7564
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I understand everyone wants me to go to the police...trust me i get that. It isn't as simple as you may think it is for me to mentally be able to do that. sigh* i'm sorry. I'm tired. I was up with nightmares all night.
As i said, i'm going to send back his stuff. If he doesn't stop after that i will issue a temporary restraining order for harassment.
As i said, i'm going to send back his stuff. If he doesn't stop after that i will issue a temporary restraining order for harassment.
I am on the forefront of battle against the demons of earth. All Praise and Glory be given to God Forever and Ever!
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:-
Kunoichi - Posts: 1219
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Nightmares, huh? Well, I don't know if this will help a grown person, but I'll try anyway. Can't hurt anything.
When I was a kid and plagued with nightmares, I would put a Bible under my pillow when I slept, and the nightmares went away. Now, obviously there isn't anything intrinsic in the Bible that wards of nightmares, but psychologically, it helped me think more positively, and thus keeping me from having nightmares. Who knows, maybe it will help you.
As for being afraid of telling the police, I think I understand at least a little. If your situation was more dangerous (not having someone with you 24/7, not having a gun, etc.) I'd press you to go on. But for now it may be safe to wait and see what sending your things to your boss will do.
When I was a kid and plagued with nightmares, I would put a Bible under my pillow when I slept, and the nightmares went away. Now, obviously there isn't anything intrinsic in the Bible that wards of nightmares, but psychologically, it helped me think more positively, and thus keeping me from having nightmares. Who knows, maybe it will help you.
As for being afraid of telling the police, I think I understand at least a little. If your situation was more dangerous (not having someone with you 24/7, not having a gun, etc.) I'd press you to go on. But for now it may be safe to wait and see what sending your things to your boss will do.
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Prince Asbel - Posts: 588
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Prince Asbel (post: 1229223) wrote:Nightmares, huh? Well, I don't know if this will help a grown person, but I'll try anyway. Can't hurt anything.
When I was a kid and plagued with nightmares, I would put a Bible under my pillow when I slept, and the nightmares went away. Now, obviously there isn't anything intrinsic in the Bible that wards of nightmares, but psychologically, it helped me think more positively, and thus keeping me from having nightmares. Who knows, maybe it will help you.
As for being afraid of telling the police, I think I understand at least a little. If your situation was more dangerous (not having someone with you 24/7, not having a gun, etc.) I'd press you to go on. But for now it may be safe to wait and see what sending your things to your boss will do.
*smile thankyou for the idea bro ^_^
.....sigh yea had dreams that i was being attacked by someone with a knife and ended wrestling with them for the knife and then stabbing them repeatedly (and i dream VERY realistic dreams) *shakes head* *shudders* ugh...
alot of it is...the psychological trauma which i don't understand myself...i'm trying to not just seclude myself and make sure i still get out and everything....
I am on the forefront of battle against the demons of earth. All Praise and Glory be given to God Forever and Ever!
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Kunoichi - Posts: 1219
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well if you cant call the police, maybe you should get someone who knows the facts to call, like your boyfriend or something. :/
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chibiphonebooth - Posts: 1975
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I will pray for you as well. God is with you.
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Hello there! I'm back after a long break! I started watching anime again in 2016. I still check the forum too!
"But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8
"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33
Lady Arianrod, lover of nature and fire.
Hello there! I'm back after a long break! I started watching anime again in 2016. I still check the forum too!
"But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5:8
"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33
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Lady Arianrod - Posts: 651
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I may be young, but I know enough to tell you to go to the police. if you are unable to do so in fear, go with your boyfriend or have someone go for you. Just remember, God loves you and wants no harm to go to you. However, getting license and gun is your best bet. Stay with someone at all times and get a restraining order. If they see no proof, go to a psychologist or pysichiatrist. They'll help you to get him found. And do you know if your boss has a record? If so, the police should be able to catch him and sentence him.
"Because the World isn't as cruel as you take it to be." ~ Celty, Durarara!!
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
~Deuteronomy 31:6
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We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality. ~ Iris Murdoch
Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
~Deuteronomy 31:6
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