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Postby Haruhiko » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:08 pm

Please, please pray for her. Her boyfriend just died of suicide, and she's hurting immensely. This is killing her and I'm afraid she might do the same as well. He had a note in his pocket, written to her when he died.

"Angel, I am sorry for everything. I could not stop myself, and I knew it was time. Please do not do anything to yourself. Please. You have people that need you and care about you. Don't take your life away because I was careless about mine. It was my fault, my life was fknghell. Please forget about me, I am where I want to be. Please get older, get married, and have the big family you always wanted. Because that's what I want. Again, I am sorry. Don't let me ruin your life. I was never worth it. I didn't deserve to be with you. I can't keep a promise, and I didn't. Please, don't do anything to yourself"

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Postby Sakaki Onsei » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:17 pm

Praying now. This is an urgent one. I'll keep her in mind for the weekend.
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Postby EricTheFred » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:23 pm

Whenever I remember to do it, I thank God that my niece failed in her suicide attempt, and managed instead to grow up into a happy and healthy adult. It is a tragedy every time another young person misses that chance.

I'll pray for her, and I'll hope she her way through this.
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Postby LadyRushia » Fri Dec 14, 2007 3:42 pm

Praying now. . .
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Postby K. Ayato » Fri Dec 14, 2007 6:01 pm

I'll be praying. I hope she's all right.
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Postby AsianBlossom » Fri Dec 14, 2007 6:28 pm

I'll pray for her and her boyfriend's soul as well (don't anyone start any debates on here or tell me it's useless because it isn't...God isn't in time, you know).
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Postby ADXC » Fri Dec 14, 2007 7:19 pm

I hate when this happens, when people find themselves to be no good. This is just sickening.(Note: Not trying to be mean or anything. Sickening meaning its really sad not in the negative sense.) Ive felt this way sometimes myself, but after prayer with God I got over it. Im just sad that he wasn't able to live his life for the Lord, I hope that your friend will get over this through the power of God if she hasn't already. And also that the Lord will have mercy on him, but suicide is murder.(Now Im not inciting a debate, so if this state disturbs you in any way please disregard it.) Anyway, these are times when everyone needs to comfort everyone, nowadays no one seems to be in the race alone. I just pray that she will come out stronger out of this than she was before, the Lord has a purpose for everything so I hope the Lord brings good out of this horrible occurrence.
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Postby SnEptUne » Fri Dec 14, 2007 7:38 pm

animedude90 wrote:I hate when this happens, when people find themselves to be no good. This is just sickening.(Note: Not trying to be mean or anything. Sickening meaning its really sad not in the negative sense.) Ive felt this way sometimes myself, but after prayer with God I got over it. Im just sad that he wasn't able to live his life for the Lord, I hope that your friend will get over this through the power of God if she hasn't already. And also that the Lord will have mercy on him, but suicide is murder.(Now Im not inciting a debate, so if this state disturbs you in any way please disregard it.) Anyway, these are times when everyone needs to comfort everyone, nowadays no one seems to be in the race alone. I just pray that she will come out stronger out of this than she was before, the Lord has a purpose for everything so I hope the Lord brings good out of this horrible occurrence.


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Postby meboeck » Fri Dec 14, 2007 7:38 pm

Wow. I'll be praying. I've seen way to many people, including myself, hurt by suicide and suicide attempts.

Lord, I pray that you would give peace to this girl and everyone involved in this. I know healing will take much time and effort, but just be with everyone as they grieve. Give them the comfort only You can give. Amen.
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Postby Haruhiko » Fri Dec 14, 2007 8:07 pm

....

guys....

I'm not sure how to put this....

but her friend who gave her this information....

lied.

I'm very, very sorry, guys. I'm sorry to have given you worry for that, even if I didn't know if it was true.

Keep the person who lied in your prayers, though. That he would see that he has done wrong and that he would repent.

Again, very sorry.
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Postby Alexander » Fri Dec 14, 2007 8:57 pm

Haruhiko wrote:....

guys....

I'm not sure how to put this....

but her friend who gave her this information....

lied.

I'm very, very sorry, guys. I'm sorry to have given you worry for that, even if I didn't know if it was true.

Keep the person who lied in your prayers, though. That he would see that he has done wrong and that he would repent.

Again, very sorry.


I'm REALLY sorry myself for asking this, but I need to know.

Is her love still dead then? And if so, are the causes just unknown?

Or is he missing? I need some more details if you can give them.
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Postby Haruhiko » Fri Dec 14, 2007 9:11 pm

Alexander wrote:I'm REALLY sorry myself for asking this, but I need to know.

Is her love still dead then? And if so, are the causes just unknown?

Or is he missing? I need some more details if you can give them.


No, he's still alive and well.
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Postby Alexander » Fri Dec 14, 2007 9:19 pm

Haruhiko wrote:No, he's still alive and well.


*massive sigh of relief*

So, may I ask what happened then? Just a bad rumer from this person I hope.
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Postby Haruhiko » Fri Dec 14, 2007 9:26 pm

Alexander wrote:*massive sigh of relief*

So, may I ask what happened then? Just a bad rumer from this person I hope.


Yes, just a bad rumor it would appear.
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Postby K. Ayato » Fri Dec 14, 2007 9:56 pm

To me it sounds like cold-hearted jealousy on this other guy's part. I'll be praying things get taken care of, and that everyone involved can let this go and forgive each other. If this was some kind of prank, OUCH!
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Postby minakichan » Fri Dec 14, 2007 10:02 pm

How terrible! I am sure your friend was really hurting, and if she did anything to herself, that prankster would be responsible. What a terrible thing to do!
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Postby CephasWhite » Fri Dec 14, 2007 10:06 pm

Well, I'm praying that this person will think before doing something like this again. I bet he was testing how his girlfriend will react to him being dead. It's honest yes...but cruel.
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Postby LadyRushia » Sat Dec 15, 2007 10:35 am

Ugh, that's just SICK. Suicide is *never* a joke in any sense of the word.:mutter:

I really hope this guy realizes that what he did is wrong.
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Postby ADXC » Sat Dec 15, 2007 10:41 am

Yeah, I agree with Lady Rushia. Death or suicide is never anything to joke about, is just cruel, sick and wrong. See now I am going to use the word sickening in the negative sense.
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Postby Jingo Jaden » Sat Dec 15, 2007 12:13 pm

Oh my, I was scared there for a moment. I will pray that the situation will better itself. Cruel, cruel joke that.
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Postby 12praiseGOD » Sat Dec 15, 2007 3:01 pm

wait did the boyfriend really write the note to play a prank on her, or did someone else, have they seen each other?I'm confused...but whoever played that joke is cruel..I will be praying for these people.
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Postby Haruhiko » Sat Dec 15, 2007 3:05 pm

12praiseGOD wrote:wait did the boyfriend really write the note to play a prank on her, or did someone else, have they seen each other?I'm confused...but whoever played that joke is cruel..I will be praying for these people.


Her boyfriend didn't write it, one of her friends did in attempts to trick her. And it worked.

I think she jumped to conclusions a little to quickly. Ah well, I'm glad its over, at least.
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Postby Denimcat » Sat Dec 15, 2007 6:12 pm

I gotta say I hope she cuts off contact with this "friend". ^^; Glad everything's fine.
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Postby Danderson » Sat Dec 15, 2007 8:11 pm

Well, the good news is nobodies dead....but that was still cruel.....intolerably cruel......
My prayers are with all those involved....
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Postby Okami » Sun Dec 16, 2007 7:51 am

*shivers* I agree with Rushia, it's not something to joke about, at all.

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Postby Gabriel 9.0 » Sun Dec 16, 2007 8:03 am

This is very low, that person isn't a friend at all to have done that. I really dislike people that pull crap like that. Especially on suicide. I'll still pray for the situation.
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Postby AsianBlossom » Sun Dec 16, 2007 12:04 pm

Oh my gosh...

Doesn't that "friend" (shouldn't even be called that) realize that she could've committed suicide herself? Talk about selfish.

I'll keep that person in my prayers; a mind like that needs some readjusting.
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Postby K. Ayato » Sun Dec 16, 2007 5:03 pm

Right with you on that one, Blossom. Thank God she didn't.
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Postby CephasWhite » Mon Dec 17, 2007 12:47 pm

Haruhiko, you better edit your first post just so everyone knows what has really happened.
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Postby Haruhiko » Mon Dec 17, 2007 1:35 pm

CephasWhite wrote:Haruhiko, you better edit your first post just so everyone knows what has really happened.


Can't edit it anymore.

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