i need prayer again...

Postby **chibiphonebooth** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 6:15 am

Man, i just keep showing up here huh? x.x

I need prayer again.

My boyfriend and I lately havent been getting along at all. I mean now we are doing ok, cause we talked about it- and its going well so far... but i cant help but
not knock off this feeling of jealousy.

I'm so frightened that some girl is going to steal him from me. I'm so afraid someone better, someone who has caught his attention is going to take him from me.

*sigh* I just dont want him to leave.... I love him too much. *Flinches and gets ready to be pelted with stuff for saying that she loves someone*

I know I know. I know what you are thinking. e.e
even though he's my first boyfriend... i dunno... i really really really like him a lot. *tries to not use the word love*

I'm so afraid of loosing him to compition, to the fact where I've been really bad and went onto his myspace to look at his messages. *sigh*

I really need prayer. Make it stop! >.<

Postby **Althaia** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 6:26 am

awwww chibi-chan have faith in your guy if he truly and honestly likes you then he would not be stolen away he will not give into temptation

Postby **Jack Bond** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 6:39 am

True. He's not the right guy for you if he goes off with other people just freely... But I'll pray that it turns out alright. ^^

Postby **chibiphonebooth** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:17 pm

thank you.

Postby **Jingo Jaden** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:19 pm

Oh my, I will pray.

Postby **Tenshi no Ai** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:21 pm

This is why trust is SO important in a relationship.^^ Worries can still happen though... but as long as you both have good communication skills with each other, and well of course, things are meant to be, then things should be fine^^ I'll be praying...

Postby **Warrior 4 Jesus** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 7:41 pm

First, talk it through with him. Trust, honesty, faith and God, those are the foundations on which a relationship should be founded (not that I've ever been in one before).
Anyway, definetly talk to your boyfriend about it first, work it out with him. If there's nothing, quit worrying. If there is something talk it through with him and leave it up to God. Pray about it definetly.
I'll be praying for you mate.

Postby **chibiphonebooth** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:21 pm

well, forget it guys.

We just broke up.

so um....

yeah. cool birthday present, huh?

....

talk to you all later or something.

Postby **Warrior 4 Jesus** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:24 pm

Oh gosh, I'm so sorry Chibi! I don't know what to say. Take some time to mourn. Keep trusting that God will pull you through this, mate. You can make it. I'll be praying for both of you.

Postby **Tenshi no Ai** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:30 pm

v_v Sorry to hear... I'll be praying for you both...

Postby **Jingo Jaden** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:34 pm

Oh my! I am so sorry V.V

I will pray.

Postby **Angel37** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 8:34 pm

aw. *hugs* if you want to talk about anything, I'm here.

Postby **Althaia** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 9:28 pm

chibi-chan!!!!!!8huggles* you no saddy waddy you must be happy or chibi-chan isn't her normal self silly

Postby **Warrior 4 Jesus** » Fri Oct 13, 2006 9:38 pm

That wasn't the most helpful of posts Raven. Have some real sympathy. This is serious, mate. It hurts - a lot. She needs support and encouragement at the moment, and a friendly ear to listen.

HitomiYuriko · Postby **SP1** » Sat Oct 14, 2006 1:58 pm

chibiphonebooth wrote:well, forget it guys.

Forget it? Not likely. If you had made up, there might not be a need for prayer.

We'll just pray twice as hard now.

Postby **Radical Dreamer** » Sat Oct 14, 2006 2:11 pm

Awww, I'm so sorry! I'll definitely be praying for you; I could tell that you really liked him a lot. Just remember, you've still got all of your friends, family, and of course, God, to help you through this tough time, so keep your chin up and remember that we're all praying for you.

Postby **chibiphonebooth** » Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:03 am

so um.... news update.

he called last night.

he wanted to get back together with me. He says he is miserable without me and he made the worst choice ever. Everything i did reminded him of me, and he couldn't get me off his mind, and he just missed me terribly.

to make a long story short.

so.. we are dating again. but i told him taht this is his last chance. and if he does it again, we are through.

Postby **Warrior 4 Jesus** » Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:18 am

I don't understand. What did he do? I thought you just thought he was unfaithful, but that your feelings were unfounded?

Postby **Ryupower** » Sun Oct 15, 2006 7:56 am

is he Christian?
If yeah, he's not gonna be unfaithful. 9_9
atleast he shouldn't.
I agree with the others. He's not the right guy for you if he doesn't accept you. If he doesn't accept you he doesn't love you, and what is a relationship without love? Would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you?
I just went through something having to do with the above a few weeks ago. He does love me, he claims, but...meh, let's ignore that I made a thread. -_-

Anyways, if he doesn't love you it's not God's will. I'm pretty sure he loves you though I don't know him. Anyways, Poke a little around and study it out if you don't trust him, and stay in your mind, not letteing your emotions get the best of you. Also, there's a verse that includes jealousy among some other sins saying " those who practice this wil not inherit the kingdom of heaven. "
And yea, I could need some help with this too...

I'll be praying dear. ^^

Postby **chibiphonebooth** » Sat Oct 21, 2006 6:54 am

...ok. we are broken up agian....

this is the last time.

I'm not taking him back. He's just... put me through too much pain.

Postby **Kura Ookami** » Sat Oct 21, 2006 10:15 am

Breaking up is tough to say the least. Recently me and my girlfriend broke up after going out online for about two years. She said she's not ready for a relationship. We're still friends, but even so it's still tough on me. I still love her. *gets ready to be pelted for saying he loves someone.* Worst thing is that we're going to meet in person for the first time in less than a week now. I guess my situation is pretty different from yours, but i understand what you're going through.

Did he give you a reason to feel jealous? Anyway, I'll be praying for you. ^_^ And I'll pray for you too Raven.

As for me can you guys pray that things all go well when i go and meet my friend. I can't help but hope that meeting in person will make us closer and change all this, but even if that doesn't happen I certainly don't want to lose her as a friend. She means way too much to me for that.

HitomiYuriko · Postby **SP1** » Sat Oct 21, 2006 4:43 pm

You know, for thousands of years God has watched his children, whom He has always loved, cycle between loving Him and turning toward some other idol. I am not sure about the theology of the Almighty's emotional range, but I think it quite possible that God knows exactly what loss is like, and He knows what it is like to cry, and He knows just how to lovingly hold one of his children who is in pain.

Try to clear just a little space so that God's love can help carry you. I will pray for this.

Postby **ChristianKitsune** » Mon Oct 23, 2006 8:05 pm

praying Chibi-chan!!

*huggles*

i need prayer again...

i need prayer again...

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