Game Moderator Ideas and Wisdom
PostPosted: Fri Aug 26, 2011 10:14 pm
Hello,
In case you are wondering, i thought about opening this in gamers galore, but i thought it would be more immediately visible here, and more readily accessible as well to those for whom it is intended and would benefit the most.
What this is, basically, is a thread for game moderators to post their experiences, how to deal with difficult situations as a moderator, such as difficult players, difficult stories, plots gone arwy, plots that have dried up, etc...
Questions, answers, suggestions, funny stories, idea generation and over all discussion that will be helpful to the role playing community here on CAA.
I hope this to be beneficial to existing GM's, GM wannabe's, and players who are maybe thinking about it some time way off in the future.
This can be anything from social elements, playing elements, handling existing rules, writing your own rules, anything related to role playing here on the forums or in your own, at-home, sit down face to face role playing games.
I'll start off with a funny story. True experience!
I was running a game at my old church with a couple friends of mine, one of them younger and he was in that annoying "your mom" phase. In between combat, before their characters set off on their true journey, i let them take a break to fill up on supplies and equipment. Well, one of the players left to get a drink and go to the bathroom, and the younger one was left there to pick his equipment alone. I asked him what he wanted for a new weapon and he said he was going to use the other guy's mom as a weapon. face palm!!!
Sooooo.... when the other guy came back and they set off through the woods, they got attacked by giant mosquitoes. Sure enough, the younger player brought out our friend's mom as his secret weapon. Not to be outdone by the sheer stupidity of the situation, i simply asked the other player what his mom would do if she saw a huge mosquito. He said she'd say "kill it!". So, in the game, his mom appeared, looked at the mosquito, and told the two Elf characters to kill it, then poofed away again.
Needless to say, this pretty much put an end to the immature "your mom" jokes, which left the rest of the game to run smoothly, much to the relief of my friend.
So there you have it, my encounter with a difficult player and how i handled it while keeping the mood good natured and humorous (i hope).
I look forward to seeing what some other of you may have to share.
God bless,
josh.
P.S.
Players can also post here as well, maybe give suggestions for moderators, or offer input on how other players can handle these same situations from the player side of the game.
In case you are wondering, i thought about opening this in gamers galore, but i thought it would be more immediately visible here, and more readily accessible as well to those for whom it is intended and would benefit the most.
What this is, basically, is a thread for game moderators to post their experiences, how to deal with difficult situations as a moderator, such as difficult players, difficult stories, plots gone arwy, plots that have dried up, etc...
Questions, answers, suggestions, funny stories, idea generation and over all discussion that will be helpful to the role playing community here on CAA.
I hope this to be beneficial to existing GM's, GM wannabe's, and players who are maybe thinking about it some time way off in the future.
This can be anything from social elements, playing elements, handling existing rules, writing your own rules, anything related to role playing here on the forums or in your own, at-home, sit down face to face role playing games.
I'll start off with a funny story. True experience!
I was running a game at my old church with a couple friends of mine, one of them younger and he was in that annoying "your mom" phase. In between combat, before their characters set off on their true journey, i let them take a break to fill up on supplies and equipment. Well, one of the players left to get a drink and go to the bathroom, and the younger one was left there to pick his equipment alone. I asked him what he wanted for a new weapon and he said he was going to use the other guy's mom as a weapon. face palm!!!
Sooooo.... when the other guy came back and they set off through the woods, they got attacked by giant mosquitoes. Sure enough, the younger player brought out our friend's mom as his secret weapon. Not to be outdone by the sheer stupidity of the situation, i simply asked the other player what his mom would do if she saw a huge mosquito. He said she'd say "kill it!". So, in the game, his mom appeared, looked at the mosquito, and told the two Elf characters to kill it, then poofed away again.
Needless to say, this pretty much put an end to the immature "your mom" jokes, which left the rest of the game to run smoothly, much to the relief of my friend.
So there you have it, my encounter with a difficult player and how i handled it while keeping the mood good natured and humorous (i hope).
I look forward to seeing what some other of you may have to share.
God bless,
josh.
P.S.
Players can also post here as well, maybe give suggestions for moderators, or offer input on how other players can handle these same situations from the player side of the game.