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prayer and help for my relationship with my girlfriend

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 2:02 pm
by firestorm
hey guys please pray for my relationship with my girlfriend for some reason she feels that it is God's will that we break up but when I ask her to give reasons it seems like every time I give her a solution to her reasons she still has this feeling. I try to look for verses that say that feelings (or the heart) can mislead but right now I have only found one in Jer 17:9. She's always been a worrywart and everytime it's like there is something she has to worry about our relationship, and it's mostly about things I believe and about family, or about me but not anything seem to be about anything I'm doing (I believe in treating women like fine china and I try to treat her respectfully like that).
I just don't know what going on with her on that end.

Also pray for her because her landowner just foreclosed on her home and she and her family has about up to 20 days now to find a new home and move. I know that God will provide for her miraculously whenever and how he wants in his timing.

Also pray that she gets a job to help her parents pay for their home wherever it may be.

I know that God will take care of them somehow.

I know stress can do lots of things to people but the she's been worried about our relationship since way before all of this even the break up feeling came before all of this. just pray that this all goes well and according to his will

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 3:40 pm
by Tsukuyomi
I'll be praying ^^

As cruel as his sounds, feelings do change.. Even when things are good ^__^ Try sitting down with her again and ask her straight up if her feelings somehow changed ^^

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 3:48 pm
by Makachop^^128
will pray ^^

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 4:14 pm
by firestorm
Tsukuyomi (post: 1335502) wrote:I'll be praying ^^

As cruel as his sounds, feelings do change.. Even when things are good ^__^ Try sitting down with her again and ask her straight up if her feelings somehow changed ^^


well the thing is she even feels that way right now she's told me so very recently like in the last few days if not a week ago then less than a week (much less than I think) and today we're gonna talk so please pray that everything goes ok.

if anyone can give me any verses that have to do with the heart and feelings deceiving you than please tell me. I would be very greatful.

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 7:53 pm
by Riggidig
I will pray.

If you don't mind me asking, how long have the 2 of you been in a relationship?

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 9:09 pm
by Phantom_Sorano
Hmmm.....you are indeed in a tough situation, Mr. Firestorm. I consulted my Bible, and this is what I found. Grab a Bible and read them a few times.

1 Corithians 13:4-7
<Tells you about what true love is.>

Psalm 6
<No matter what may happen, God is on your side.>

Song of Songs
<Read all of it. It covers most of the basics concerning a serious relationship.>

I hope everything works out. I'll be praying for you.

PostPosted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 11:10 pm
by BubblegumNinja
I'll be praying for you too.

I know I read a scripture a while back which dealt with a misleading heart, but I can't remember where... I'll post again when I think of it.

PostPosted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 8:29 am
by Amzi Live
Praying for ya dude.
Hope today goes as smooth as possible.

PostPosted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 10:12 am
by Rambo
Man i will pray for you. I wish i had something more to help and say but i dont but God is in it. And how ever it turns out remember its God best interest for Both of you. again i will pray for you and her.

PostPosted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 5:57 pm
by firestorm
well here is an update for you guys and also an answer to a question from riggi.

to riggi: we were together 1 year and 8 months. which brings us to our update.

Last night we did end up breaking up but it seems really weird. as you guys know she felt that it was God's will that we break up. now usually God gives us a feeling of peace if we are following his Will and that is what she expected, but she didn't get peace she actually feels really conflicted now about the break-up and she realizes now that the stuff that she thought she had a reason to break up with me for had nothing to do with me but rather something else (I'm not at liberty to say right now). So she says now that she's praying to see what God's will really is and she needs talk to me and my family about somethings.

I know what they are already but just pray that her conversation goes well and that everything gets solved.

PostPosted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 9:23 pm
by F.M Disciple
Well I'll pray that everything will turn out ok for you too.

Sorry about the break up.