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hurt caused by rumors

PostPosted: Sat Jan 03, 2009 6:29 pm
by Gala
I don't really know how to explain everything that's going on, but it's all caused by false rumors about me and it def needs prayer...

First of all I have this girl (who I thought was a friend) start hacking into my email and fowarding emails to herself and taking them out of context/adding things that weren't there to these emails and now they are on the way to the deans of my school (this is false info that could get me expelled). She started telling my best friend that I was being promiscuous. She even went as far as telling one of the guys that I hang out with at the school (he's like a big bro to me) the same thing, but luckily he didn't believe any of it.

Now my best friend was told by two different guys that I was cheating on my boyfriend with them (which is not happening) and she ran off and told him about it.. so of course he contacted both of these guys who both told him that I was doing it...
I've always had rumors like these going around about me since Jr. High, but it's never reached someone I care about.. or at least no one I cared about believed the rumors.

Sorry about the high school level drama in this.. I thought I was rid of it when I went to college lol

Please pray that I don't get expelled, I don't lose my bf because of these rumors if we break up at all and I don't lose my best friend. This is all hurting really badly and I'm not one to usually care about what is being said about me, but this is a bit ridiculous.

Thanks in advance,
Gala

PostPosted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 8:09 am
by Kunoichi
Gala,

If possible I would take some preventive measures and let your deans know what is going on. Frankly what that girl is doing IS illegal, (when you start being an adult that "childish" bullcrap gets you in ADULT trouble). She can get fined for slander. I would do as much preventive work as you can.

As for your best friend and boyfriend, it comes to whether or not they are one to believe rumors. I know you may not have any "proof" but honestly, they should trust you more than that.

*hugs will be praying, keep us updated!

Kunoichi

PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 7:38 pm
by 12praiseGOD
Definitely praying!

PostPosted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 9:59 pm
by Gala
I am now back at the school and it looks like the rumors are still going on, but at least my bf and best friend now believe the truth. God is definitely in control of this situation. I am planning on telling the deans soon just so nothing happens to get me kicked out of school.

PostPosted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 10:48 am
by Kunoichi
Good. Again SHE can get into serious trouble for all this. I"m glad that your best friend and bf know what the truth is :)

PostPosted: Sat Jan 17, 2009 1:29 pm
by 12praiseGOD
Glory to God! I'm so glad!
Still praying all goes well!