Prayer request, yay
PostPosted: Tue Dec 30, 2008 10:53 pm
I'm not really sure how to put all of it. Hmm. Basically, I'll try to make it all short. My brother's girlfriend, is one of the most self-centered, self-absorbed, hypocritical people I've ever met. For the few of you I've talked to about my ex, my brother's girlfriend is just like my ex, but worse. She makes plans without telling anyone else, and is almost offended when others don't want to follow her plans. She pushes things, and plans, on people, with no prior notice. She lies and manipulates people. The stress is making it hard to explain things, so I'll just copy and paste.
me: almost everytime I hang out with them, she gets mad at him for no reason
she get mad at him, yelled at him, one time, because he couldn't help her with her phone
see
me: she always yells at people for no reason
she always makes plans without telling anyone else, and expects everyone else to stick to her plans
and she pushes things on people
1:22 AM her sister just came down to stay with us
she was pushing her sister on me, trying to make me show her sister around town, so she wouldn't have to
and they asked me to help her sister set up an e-mail account
I said yeah, I'd help her with that
1:23 AM then after they leave, I find out from her sister, I'm supposed to also help her sister with four other things
me: she expects everyone to be perfectly ok and have no problems with whatever she does
and she freaks out as soon as anyone does, or when anyone does what she does
she's one of the most selfish, self-absorbed, hypocritical people I've ever met
me: I'm hoping he will
just
she never acts what anyone else thinks
she always just assumes everything
and then she comes up with plans, based off her assumptions, without asking anyone else
calbhach: yeah
me: like, an example
she knows I want to move out of this house
and she and my brother are planning to move out
1:29 AM so one day, she just comes up to me, and starts talking about they're planning to move out, and she knows I want to
and I don't remember exactly what she said, but it was something like "so we'll go and get our own place, and you can come move in with us"
which sounds nice, yeah
but the way she says it, she doesn't even ask
1:30 AM she just comes up with this plan of me moving in with them
calbhach: geez >.o;
me: it's like
thanks for the offer
maybe next time you could ask me what I want or think
1:31 AM calbhach: yeah really
me: it's like
1:32 AM she doesn't say it, or ask it, in a way that's like "what do you think of this?"
she doesn't mention their plans, and then ask if I'd want to move in with them
she says it as "hey, I came up with this plan, without thinking about you or asking what you want or considering you, what do you think of it"
1:33 AM and I'm just so sick of it
I don't deal with her much, so it wouldn't bother me so much. Except for the fact that because she's completely selfish and self-absorbed, my family might lose our house. she changes plans for no reason, and is making us possibly lose our house, and all she can think about is how we might be wronging her, which none of us are. She cares more about non-existent affronts to her, than the fact that she'll probably make us lose our house.
My whole point is, I can't stand people like that, I hate them. And as un-Christian as it sounds, I want every possible bad thing to them. Just please pray I'll be ok, and the stress won't get to me, and we'll find people to move into our house so we don't have to lose it. I also hope my brother will leave her, he's too good for her, and that she'll get all the terrible stuff she deserves.
me: almost everytime I hang out with them, she gets mad at him for no reason
she get mad at him, yelled at him, one time, because he couldn't help her with her phone
see
me: she always yells at people for no reason
she always makes plans without telling anyone else, and expects everyone else to stick to her plans
and she pushes things on people
1:22 AM her sister just came down to stay with us
she was pushing her sister on me, trying to make me show her sister around town, so she wouldn't have to
and they asked me to help her sister set up an e-mail account
I said yeah, I'd help her with that
1:23 AM then after they leave, I find out from her sister, I'm supposed to also help her sister with four other things
me: she expects everyone to be perfectly ok and have no problems with whatever she does
and she freaks out as soon as anyone does, or when anyone does what she does
she's one of the most selfish, self-absorbed, hypocritical people I've ever met
me: I'm hoping he will
just
she never acts what anyone else thinks
she always just assumes everything
and then she comes up with plans, based off her assumptions, without asking anyone else
calbhach: yeah
me: like, an example
she knows I want to move out of this house
and she and my brother are planning to move out
1:29 AM so one day, she just comes up to me, and starts talking about they're planning to move out, and she knows I want to
and I don't remember exactly what she said, but it was something like "so we'll go and get our own place, and you can come move in with us"
which sounds nice, yeah
but the way she says it, she doesn't even ask
1:30 AM she just comes up with this plan of me moving in with them
calbhach: geez >.o;
me: it's like
thanks for the offer
maybe next time you could ask me what I want or think
1:31 AM calbhach: yeah really
me: it's like
1:32 AM she doesn't say it, or ask it, in a way that's like "what do you think of this?"
she doesn't mention their plans, and then ask if I'd want to move in with them
she says it as "hey, I came up with this plan, without thinking about you or asking what you want or considering you, what do you think of it"
1:33 AM and I'm just so sick of it
I don't deal with her much, so it wouldn't bother me so much. Except for the fact that because she's completely selfish and self-absorbed, my family might lose our house. she changes plans for no reason, and is making us possibly lose our house, and all she can think about is how we might be wronging her, which none of us are. She cares more about non-existent affronts to her, than the fact that she'll probably make us lose our house.
My whole point is, I can't stand people like that, I hate them. And as un-Christian as it sounds, I want every possible bad thing to them. Just please pray I'll be ok, and the stress won't get to me, and we'll find people to move into our house so we don't have to lose it. I also hope my brother will leave her, he's too good for her, and that she'll get all the terrible stuff she deserves.