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Could use some extra help
PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 7:22 pm
by Gabriel 9.0
Well yesterday one of my good male friends asked me to kill him with one of my assault rifles....I don't own any mind you, but its very sad to see him like this. He is very depressed over his girlfriend playing mind games with him constantly and other things like giving up on finding the right woman to marry, that he'll fail in serving God and won't reach what God wants him to do.
I used to get thoughts on giving up on finding the right woman to marry one day. And giving up on my goals to honor and promote God in the media industry, but I know and trust in God that both things will happen.
I also would appreciate extra prayer for ,my mother, she is a very good lady , but has arthritis, and other health issues. And my father didn't make things easier when he was married to her. I'm so glad I'm not like that man and don't wish to be and I feel blessed I'm nice and serve God with God's help.
Both things are really getting to me, so please pray. I really would appreciate it.
God Bless and have a good Sabbath tomorrow:)
PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 7:33 pm
by Sakaki Onsei
Two big things:
1) Get your friend to your pastor, pronto. If he's thinking of offing himself because of this, it means that it's a dire situation. I'll get some of my boys on the SPS (Suicide Prayer Squad) up in Portland to help pray tonight.
2) Be vigilant, and remember that you're always in good hands with God and his allies. We're all here to help. And we will keep you in prayer tonight for both your mom and your friend.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 7:33 pm
by Aedin
I'll totally pray for you man.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 7:46 pm
by Sanderson
Gabriel 9.0 (post: 1270379) wrote:Well yesterday one of my good male friends asked me to kill him with one of my assault rifles....I don't own any mind you, but its very sad to see him like this. He is very depressed over his girlfriend playing mind games with him constantly and other things like giving up on finding the right woman to marry, that he'll fail in serving God and won't reach what God wants him to do.
Instead of your friend thinking "I have to have a girlfriend, I have to get married", he should be thinking "if I find a girl I like, great, if not, whatever". This is how I think when it comes to girls, and it's the reason girls don't mess with me, because I get rid of them the second they do. I know couples will never get along 100% of the time, but her causing problems like that for your friend and making him have suicidal thoughts, he really needs to get rid of her. If your friend is afraid of breaking up with her because he thinks he won't ever find another girlfriend, he should still do it.
Being single > dealing with a girl like that.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 8:08 pm
by Tsukuyomi
I'll be praying too ^ ^
Finding the right person is important, but that will come on its own, and it's not the end of the world if you doin't ^ ^
I'm sorry to hear of thier relationship problem, but isn't that saying they aren't meant to be? I mean, if she's playing mind games with him like that o.O?
(Sorry if that last part came off wrong ^ ^;)
PostPosted: Sat Nov 15, 2008 6:47 pm
by Gabriel 9.0
[quote="Sanderson (post: 1270383)"]Instead of your friend thinking "I have to have a girlfriend, I have to get married", he should be thinking "if I find a girl I like, great, if not, whatever". This is how I think when it comes to girls, and it's the reason girls don't mess with me, because I get rid of them the second they do. I know couples will never get along 100%]
Yeah I agree, its not worth dealing with a girl like that. I keep telling him to trust in God that he'll send him the right woman one day to marry , like I have faith and know God will with me and other guys planning to get married.
The stress has taken a toll on him.
[quote="Tsukuyomi (post: 1270386)"]I'll be praying too ^ ^
Finding the right person is important, but that will come on its own, and it's not the end of the world if you doin't ^ ^
I'm sorry to hear of thier relationship problem, but isn't that saying they aren't meant to be? I mean, if she's playing mind games with him like that o.O?
(Sorry if that last part came off wrong ^ ^]
Very true Lucky, on both things, anything is possible with God , even finding and marrying the right person one day. I just hope and pray my other friend hangs in there.
The Sabbath went well today, thanks to God.
Thank you all for your prayers for my mother and one of my friends. I really appreciate it. He is still feeling very down in the dumps, looks like it will be that way for him for a while unfortunately....
So please keep praying.
God Bless and hope all is well for everybody:)