dischord in my college group
PostPosted: Wed Dec 20, 2006 3:10 am
Once again, a matter of forgiveness... Two members of my college group are having a vicious argument and getting a lot of people involved... I think it's mostly an Ego problem coupled with misunderstandings and a bit of childish behavior thrown in for good measure, but one person is actually leaving due to this, and he's been telling everyone about it, and, thankfully, they haven't made the same choice as him (leaving the group) but I think both of these people need to reconcile... It will take person a giving an honest apology with no justification of his actions, or person b giving real forgiveness even if no real apology is given, understanding person a is human and can be an ### at times... It's just that person b put person a on a pedestal, and he took some words spoken in anger to mean something a bit further than it did...
Anyhow, this is hard, because a couple months ago, I was angry at person a as well, but it just took my realizing people are human and they'll do things that **** me off... Person b carries grudges for a long time, though... Just pray, at the very least, that he'll be able to forgive person a... That this doesn't ruin him, which it very well may (two debtors parable)
Anyhow, this is hard, because a couple months ago, I was angry at person a as well, but it just took my realizing people are human and they'll do things that **** me off... Person b carries grudges for a long time, though... Just pray, at the very least, that he'll be able to forgive person a... That this doesn't ruin him, which it very well may (two debtors parable)