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a friend in need

PostPosted: Fri Nov 03, 2006 10:36 pm
by Artist4Jesus89
Well i met this girl named Shandel a few months ago and we became intstant friends and the more i got to know her the more she opened up to me and the more i know about her i mean im not saying i know everything about her but were like almost to the inseperable stage lol she is the most awesomest person i know.
Let me give you a little background on this awesome girl i know!
Shandel is 16 and she has a 3 month old daughter who she is in a custody battle for.
She was raped when she was younger by her uncle and 2 cousins (i think it was two) and she cant let it go which i mean i couldnt either but anyways.
Her mom is kicking her out of her house and she is getting an apartment.
She is saved and really trying to live for Christ she got saved while she was pregnant with Tammera and her babys father Terrence is really a jerk to her and is trying to prove that she is psycotic even though she isnt.
Shandel spends the majority of her money on her baby which it good because i mean she really takes care of that girl seriously and when she gets an apartment then she and i will have more chances to hang out...
They WILL let her get an apartment and i know this because, she has had one before.
Her mother is not very nice and doesnt seem to care for her and her grandmother doesnt even want to hold her baby because her baby is half black which is sooo wrong for her to do that is a beautiful gift of God and yet she wont hold her...
Oh an about that rape thing she didnt come out with it until last year... and she can hardly talk about it and it screwed up her life and she really needs help living for God.
Please pray for her she is the most awesome person ever and i love her to death i would do anything for this girl i am serious she is one of my best friends.
She is going through alot and has been i just ask if nothing else please remember her in your prayers just typing on this computer does not show how much i really care about her i feel God has put a love and a burden for her in my heart i am going to do everything i can please pray and thanks.

Heather

PostPosted: Fri Nov 03, 2006 10:46 pm
by Tenshi no Ai
Oh wow... lost for words on all that, but it's SO great that she is Christian and with God in her life, such amazing things can happen^^ I'll be be praying...

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 8:31 am
by Ryupower
Thanks for sharing that, I'll pray.

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 4:29 pm
by Yumie
Wow, poor girl, that's a lot to have been through for such a young one. From what you've said about her, it seems she is handling it amazingly well, but it would be devestating for her to lose this baby to someone who is so clearly lost and perverted. So, I'll pray for her and the baby!

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 4:34 pm
by revolution
I will definitely be praying.

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 5:37 pm
by SP1
Praying for her. And praise God for you, A4J89. She needs someone to stand by her (since her family isn't). Don't forget the church can be a great resource at times like this. Not necessarily financial, but perhaps there are people who can watch the baby while she works or goes to school, or recommend a job with flexible hours, etc.

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 5:38 pm
by Jingo Jaden
Woah, a lot to pray for here, I will pray.

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 7:53 pm
by Artist4Jesus89
Thank you guys so much its needed and i know God will see her through!

PostPosted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 8:05 pm
by Radical Dreamer
Wow, that's awful. It's really good that she's a Christian though; I'll definitely pray for her! :)