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some veterans may remember me....but i am a lurker now...

i've been having some serious issues...

a few months ago when my last boy girl relationship failed, i vowed i wasn't going to date till i was 17, but a few weeks ago i went to the mall with a few of my friends...and well, my friend pressured me soooo much into asking this one girl out i did....and well up till this point i had my eye on possibly the best girl thats ever happened to me, after i asked her out i immideitly felt regrets, the next day i told her of my situation and we mutually decided to break it off, but the other girl i like...danielle, (No one here) found out...and now she hates me...but i still have massive feelings for her, and i can litterally not sleep sometimes at night because i screwed up so bad...so, life pretty much sucks for me atm..so plz pray for me.

Apologize. As a girl I can tell you now she is just really unhappy and doesn't hate you. Unless she's a nonChristian. Then it might be different. I don't know. But I will pray for you.

I'll pray for you as well.

I don't know if you want advice but after reading your post and having noticed you were 14 I just wondered,why on earth are you dating? are you planning on getting married soon?
I understand that it is hard but the worst thing you can do is let your friends talk you into doing something. If they start pressuring you just tell them to back off.

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but I am at a loss to why young teens are getting "boyfriends" and "girlfriends" when thier brains [myself included] aren't fully formed.

It is understandable that you have feelings for a young gal. (Heck I do as well)

I question wether your friends are being good friends. I don't believe a good friend would really pressure you to dating a girl.

You are also too young to start dating. Dating at a young age will make things... SO MUCH WORSE and believe me. I myself am too young to date. Statements such as "I will date when I am x amount of years old" should never be said. For it is your mental maturity, not physical age that counts in wether or not you are up for such a commitment.

Honestly, I fell the same way on the issue of, i'm to young to date...why i did it then i really don't know...but anywho,

Thanks for the prayers gents and ladies, greatly appriseated.

Yeah, I know so many people like this. Personally, I see no purpose in dating at a young age, though I know how you feel about girls. All teenage guys are like that.

Dude, I know how you feel. It's good to know you have a good perspective on relationships. That will be very rewarding years down the road if you put it into practice. I'll be praying that things would calm down and get sorted out and that all of your relationships would glorify God.

that's got to hurt. I'll be praying for you.

I am sorry I will be praying for you to have strength through this trial and i am seventeen I know that I have had one relationship and it ended badly... I just hope that you're praying for the girl who acts like she hates you because as a girl who has experienced this kind of hurt She needs prayer deperately and if she's not a christian she needs it even more so

I'm 16 in a month and 2 days and I never had a date before....
But I've got a question, are these girls Christians? Or Hethens? ( I'll pray for thrir salvation if they're hethens )

If they're hethens...BREAK IT UUUUP! O.O
That's very dangerous.

anyways, lifting you up bro!

They are both Christians, I honestly would never date a non-christian

Jman wrote:They are both Christians, I honestly would never date a non-christian

OK,that's a good thing.
thanks