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OK, I'm IRRITATED.
I stopped crushing on this one guy 2 weeks ago. But I decided to still become close friends. I have absolutely NO INTEREST in him whatsoever.

Anyways, yeah, a few days ago he told me about his girlfriend that he once had, that she hurt him and went after someone whos richer and yadayadayada.
He's a saved to the bone Christian. She was a hethen. I gave him this scripture about a week ago:

2 Cor 6:14-16

14 Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? 15 And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? 16 And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said:

"I will dwell in them
And walk among them.
I will be their God,
And they shall be My people."
NKJV


He just went OK, and underlined it in the Bible, and totally accepted it...or so I thought. -.-*
It seemed like it...

but then he was walking me home today and the topic came up again...
" how was your time at your aunt's house? ^^ " I asked. "OH! It couldn't be better."
me: "what hapeened?"
him: " I got a new girlfriend! ^^"

he was there A WEEK, and he's got a new girlfriend...-.-

so we talked about her. he goes: " the others all played around wth me, but this one is different...she REALLY LOVES ME! : D "

OK. A week...and he knows that she 'really loves him'. Moreso this was the girlfriend of his brother once...

He DOES NOT KNOW IF SHE'S A CHRISTIAN.
So we continued, yeah, ok...I was shocked, I asked how, 'one can feel it' he say..
so I asked him how many girlfriends he had. 6.
HE HAD 6 GIRLFRIENDS AND HE'S ONLY 14!!!
ALL WERE HETHENS,
He's still a virgin though, and he doesn't plan on using something like that up. but still...THAT SCRIPTURE SEEMS TO HAVE BEEN IGNORED. I tried to explain him why it's so. But still: " so you'd split up with a person just because they're not Christian?" I say " yes, unless you'll minister to them." he goes: " don't you think that's a bit extreme?" "no."

OK, I'm 16, never had a date, never had a guy. This Guy's 14 and had 6!! I thought I knew him better. Right...so he's shy, huh? -.-; ( more interesting that he had 6 girlfriends, and only has 2 friends at school...IN SCHOOL he's shy, where the heck does he find all those girlfriends?!?! )
I'm not seeing him till this school year's over, he's in Germany, I'm in the US
for that time being ( and Germany doesn't ave many Christians, which is also another thing to acknowledge. He doesn't use the effort to find one. )

So I'm irritated about the whole thing. PLEASE PEOPLE, pray that he'll get CONVICTED of dating all these hethens, that G-d'll turn him THE RIGHT WAY.
And PLEASE...pray for me, that I'll forgive him and stop judging him...
Thanks in advance, and sorry for the long post but It had to be said.

( BTW: First prayer I thought important enough to post, other issues like the salvation of my family and all I thought weren't important enough please pray now that I'm posting something. But I'm concerned about his future and spiritual well being.... )

Many Christians think that they have the liberty to ignore scripture. I'll be praying for him, for you and for the salvation of your family (which is very important ). I pray that you will encourage him to obedience by word and example.

Syreth wrote:Many Christians think that they have the liberty to ignore scripture. I'll be praying for him, for you and for the salvation of your family (which is very important ). I pray that you will encourage him to obedience by word and example.

Thank you SO much!

another thing: I won't see him till after school's over, he's here in Germany, I'm gonna go back to the US so long. I'm editing that.


BTW: thanks, I got over the judgement thing, and repented real good!
so thanks for praying.
now the only thing left is his conviction, perhaps that, if it's in G-d's will, make everything in that relationship go WRONG, if not, have it prosper...( and have me lose 25 cents, lol )

I know it can be frustrating when it seems like someone simply won't grow in a certain area. Lifting up the situation.

And thank you for your faithfulness to pray for the needs posted here.

I can't stand that line..."They really love me!" Insanely, patheticaly, stupid. No they don't. Kids that age are too young to understand the meaning of true love. I don't think most people, child or adult, undertand it for that matter. Ah...I'll pray.

I'll pray.

Destroyer2000 wrote:I can't stand that line..."They really love me!" Insanely, patheticaly, stupid. No they don't. Kids that age are too young to understand the meaning of true love. I don't think most people, child or adult, undertand it for that matter. Ah...I'll pray.

Well, the biggest earthly crush of my life ( as hethen ) was in that age, I knew what love is...BUT I knew him longer than a week, and it didn't start with some date your brother set you up with. I mean, c'mon! A week! ( sure, he already knew her, as his BROTHERS girlfriend, and they didn't even have a crush on her when they dated, - it was a setup )


thanks for your prayers everyone!
On my side it's getting better. I just hope on his side too, I really care for him ( in a brohterly/sisterly way. ). So thank you very much!

UPDATE!!!!
( finally )

yes, he broke up with her. He gave me the bet money and I gave it back. I regret making bets...it's gambling. But it sorta made a spark to it.

anyways, he's broken up...but he continues searching for a girlfriend. Pray that he'll find a Christian or stay cellibate...I know it's hard to find christians in Germany, but still...he seems to not have listened to the verse...


Anyway, he broke up and that was the request.

Might as well pray that he'll listen to God and not do his own things. If he's not saved that he'll get saved, and that he just DOES what's in God's will.
If you don't mind...^^;

you will be in my prayers. Just want to say God's telling me to tell you just to let go, I don't know why but I know he has his reasons, if you want you can alway pm me =)

I will pray as well.

gogogoh3 wrote:you will be in my prayers. Just want to say God's telling me to tell you just to let go, I don't know why but I know he has his reasons, if you want you can alway pm me =)

What? no, no....^^]UPDATE!!!!
( finally )

yes, he broke up with her. He gave me the bet money and I gave it back. I regret making bets...it's gambling. But it sorta made a spark to it.

anyways, he's broken up...but he continues searching for a girlfriend. Pray that he'll find a Christian or stay cellibate...I know it's hard to find christians in Germany, but still...he seems to not have listened to the verse...


Anyway, he broke up and that was the request.

Might as well pray that he'll listen to God and not do his own things. If he's not saved that he'll get saved, and that he just DOES what's in God's will.
If you don't mind...^^;[/QUOTE]
see?
Thanks anyways! You're a very nice friend !