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disappointment..

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2005 12:24 pm
by FadedOne
I dont want to ramble on here and sound stupid or whiny, but i'm dealing w/ alot of heartache recently. Had been feeling let down by various people(friends that got caught up in their lives to the point of 'forgetting' me) but this is like..the last straw. someone I dearly care about and trusted seems to have basically dismissed our friendship and has become relatively cold and unfriendly. this is the person i trusted more than most anyone else...I never would have believed they'd let me down like this... =/
it's very painful and discouraging. and yeah, please pray I can understand this and not become too broken. life is confusing as it is, and people are usually what keep me sane....now i'm just not sure who i can trust anymore and I dont know who to blame, if anyone, for this pain

anyways..yeah. thanks..

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2005 1:16 pm
by dragonshimmer
I'm sorry to hear that...it's a really tough thing to deal with.

Have you talked to your friend about this? Sometimes people aren't aware that it's something they're doing, and if the problem is fixed early enough, the friendship can be repaired with no damage.

I'll pray for you...but remember that you are always loved and God will provide more doors of happiness.

PostPosted: Wed May 11, 2005 7:22 pm
by agasfas
I'm sorry to hear that such things have happened to you... and a broken heart is a hard thing to heal. In life we meet many people and sometimes the closest friends can grow apart. It's a harsh reality of life. In most cases there are only a few 'true' friends we keep near us. I only have 2 friends in my life that I've kept close and and trust my life to. The others have gone they own way.

I'll be the first to admit this but trust is a fragile thing to repair; I know this from experience. I don't know exactly what happened but my advise is quite similar to dragonshimmer's. Talking is almost always the best way to adress things and hopefully repair the friendship. And if this is the friendship worth preserving, it's best to address it earlier then later.

I'll be praying for both your friendship and how you feel. And if you ever feel the need to talk, feel free to PM me. I hope you feel better.

PostPosted: Thu May 12, 2005 5:26 am
by Anna Mae
I know how you feel. I will be praying for you.