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my mother has realy been getting on my nerves lattley. she dous not even realize that she is. I do know she has alot of stess built up in her right now, but that dues not mean she should take it all out on me. do to her taking everthing out on me, I have had serios dought about my life. I feel alot of anger and darkness growing inside of me. lately I have felt that everyone is out to get me. I even feel that my own friends are out for my blood.

it seems that know matter what I do, nothing is good enouphe. every time I talk to my mother, it seems all I get from her is sarcasm. it takes every little bit of energy I have not to burst out and yell at her to back off. it is also starting to get in the way of my school work.

I feel as if the devil has taken a grasp on my life, and is doing everthing in his power to screw it up. the harder I fight it the tighter it gets. I need some help.

please pray for me.

Maybe you should talk to her about it. When ever my mom and I get on eachother's nerves, we sit down, talk about it and try to come up with a solution. I hope this has helped you, even in the least bit. ^^

I'll pray for you two, also. ^^

AlBhedNikki wrote:Maybe you should talk to her about it. When ever my mom and I get on eachother's nerves, we sit down, talk about it and try to come up with a solution. I hope this has helped you, even in the least bit. ^^

I'll pray for you two, also. ^^

Dittos on what ABN said. While your mom might completely realize how mean she's being, it's quite possible that she doesn't and that she'd want to know how she's hurting you right now. If you can, I'd sit down with her and talk about it. Tell her how you're feeling right now. It could help alot!

Either way, I'm so sorry for how you're feeling right now. I'll be praying for you!

Good advice from both ABN and Osaka. However, it could not be that easy to just sit down and talk to her about it? Is there anyone else you can discuss the situation with, perhaps someone you can trust and your mom can trust and who can be a mediator between the two of you until the atmosphere is better for direct discussion between your mom and you.

I'll pray for the two of you and that things improve soon.

I agree that she might not be aware, and you should tell her. However, while talking a problem out can be good advice, some people don't work like that. Example:

My mom and I have a slightly similar situation. The way she was brought up, if you question an adult, you are sinning. She realizes that this has its flaws, but it is still ingrained in her. When I try to sit down and talk things out with her, she shuts down and nothing is accomplished.

So, I guess my point is, if it doesn't work, or it doesn't feel like she wants to communicate, don't give up hope. Try to love her. Come to her where she is. I know that this can be hard, but the Body of Christ is here to support you. We will be praying.

Remember that God will never leave you or forsake you!

Even though it is true that in some families questioning adults is considered wrong and disrespectful....However,It is always best to sit down and try to talk out the situation. From my own experience I can tell you that it is better to discuss how you are feeling and to not place blame on her. But, if it is something that is affecting you this adversely, than this is all I can think of.
Anyways, I will keep you and your mom in my prayers.
Good luck and God bless.

will pray