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I have a problem...

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 12:08 pm
by bakura_fan
When I am mad, whether it's at others...myself....or just plain upset about something, I hit myself....hard....It used to make me feel better...but now as things have progressed it takes more and more times for me to hit myself for the feeligns of anger to go away....usually I slap myself as hard as I can and as many times as I can...and if I start feeling dizzy I'll hit other parts of me too...one time I bruised my leg...I know it's wrong..and I want to stop now since it's not helping that much anymore....so yeah....prayer would be nice.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 1:12 pm
by Swordguy
i will be praying...give it to Him...everytime you get angrey...take the time to stop and pray....

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 3:53 pm
by ShiroiHikari
do your parents know about this? :[ maybe you should talk to them or another elder you can trust. try writing in a journal or playing a game or ANYTHING besides hurting yourself. self-injury can be very dangerous if left untreated -_- I'll pray for you.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 5:08 pm
by sonichiro
im praying for you. put all your trust in the Father, hand your anger over to him.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 5:15 pm
by AngelSakura
I'll pray for you, bakura_fan.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 6:07 pm
by CephasWhite
I'm praying for you Bakura_fan. Please don't hurt yourself. Pray and things WILL go better. If your angry, punch a pillow, not your head. Shout into a pillow if you want.

Everything will be fine my friend, take care.

Love you and God bless

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 11:02 pm
by fire_senshi
Right, whenever you get angry and feel the need to express it, do it in a healthy way. Hit a pillow, the bed, something that won't cause physical damage. If you really need help stopping, talk to someone that can help. Always stop and pray and hand everything over to God. If you can't, then pull out a Bible and read. pray for scripture to ease your pain or anger. Talk to God, but also let him talk to you. I hope things get better and i will pray for you. God bless!

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 11:11 pm
by c.t.,girl
bakura...you know...i do the same thing to...i know i need to stop too...i'll pray for you...

PostPosted: Fri Feb 25, 2005 11:30 pm
by chibi_chan
I'll definatly pray.^^

PostPosted: Sat Feb 26, 2005 1:02 pm
by Rogie
Hurting yourself only makes your inner pain and anger temporarily go away. Tell everything to God -- exactly why you're angry, and say it aloud to Him. Confession to Christ will help far more.

I'll pray.

PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 12:16 pm
by Mr. SmartyPants
i see whyh you hit yourself, to concentrate your thoughts onto something else, but there are other alternatives! Such as prayer! I'll be praying!

PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 1:55 pm
by Mr_Ross
I'll be praying for you...

Don't worry, it'll be ok. I have problems with this sometimes. Don't worry, God will help you with it. *hugs*

PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2005 8:19 pm
by agasfas
Hurting yourself only makes your inner pain and anger temporarily go away.

Not only that, but it usually makes things worse.

I will keep you in my prayers. My advise is to just find other methods of releasing pain or anger... what really works well is just talking about it. If you have someone close that is willing to listen, just let it all out. Sometimes an open ear is the best medicine to our souls. If you feel you have no one to talk to, feel free to contact me. Just remember there are always other ways of releasing pain. Anyways, I'll keep you in my prayers.

PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 12:37 am
by Kura Ookami
I'll pray for you too Bakura_fan

PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 8:24 am
by bakura_fan
thanks everyone....I havn't been mad lately to know how i'll handle the situation...I've been quite happy and at peace....I just hope it stays that way....cause I'm afraid that if I get mad enough I'm gonna do something that I will really regret later on in life....as timid as I look, I know that the anger I have can get the better of me and i can get violent. I feel sorry for my plushes and pillows that I used to throw around the room and smack. and when I did that...I still got hurt because I don't have much upper body strength and I sprained my arm before. Like...I'd still have so much anger but I'd be worn out and not able to do anything after that...except get even more mad. If I compare both methods time wise....the self injury is still a faster method of releasing my anger then hitting anything else.