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My sister and my family

PostPosted: Sat Dec 11, 2004 9:35 am
by Hitokiri
I trust you guys alot and some of you have become my closest friends so this is why im sharing this prayer request.

My family needs alot of prayer. Just a while ago, my sister and mother got into a arguement which ended up them getting into a physical fight and my sister bruised my mothers eye. I had to physically restrain my sister and I sprained her arm in doing so. She got me so angry that i threatned to breaK EVERY bone in her body and i picked up a couch and threw it. I than broke down and ran into another part of the house. Apparently my sister tackled my mother when I was away but realize what she was doing and broke down as well.

Just pray for us as we begin to heal, mend, and prepare to confrotn my ssiters anger and rebellion problem. Pray for my sister as we may begin to home school her, as she adjusts to that life, and that this spirit of anger and rebellion will go away. Pray for my mother as the emtotional scar of being attacked by her daughter can be healed by God, pray for me as I am emotionally a wreck for physically assaulting my sister (even though I did it to protect my mom), and pray for my father who will hear of this (he's at work) and his anger won't be to much. We've ha dproblems like these but nothing like today and we're all shooken up and we're all in tears. Thanks so much. God Bless.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 12:12 am
by ssj2gohan61
i will pray

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 12:28 am
by agasfas
Sorry to hear about that Hitokiri. I can somewhat relate. I have a older brother that is, well to put it frank unpredictable/unstable at times. He's 21yrs and has emotional break downs every so ofthen. A while back my mom and him got into an argument (which happens a lot), although it didn't get physical I'm afraid that sometime in the future it may. It's always one of those things that anything can happen. He gets really defensive and gets right in her face in a threating manner. He even went outside screaming bad things about my mother hysterical at the top of his lungs. Like curse words, bad words for women (i think y'all already know them) and etc. Good thing he isn't living here at the moment, but after christmas he will be moving back in, for aboaut 3 months...(more like another year or more). Here come the fun ol' days..

Anyways, the whole point of that was to tell you I can somewhat relate. Sometimes you hate doing so, but you have to intervene, sometimes physically to stop things like this. Regardless of how your mom made your sister angry she should not ever hit your mother under any circumstances. So I praise you for doing what is right. Things like this happen, and it'll be hard, but there is always room for relationship recovery. I hate conflicts and arguments, my whole life I've grown up in them. Me rebelling at an early to my older brother. It had to be real tough, but I really give your credit for handleing the situation the way you did.

Anyways, sorry for my rambling. I will surely pray you, your family etc.. It can be hard at times but let me assure you there is no shame in showing yours concerns or tears. Stay strong buddy, I know everything will work out. I'll pray.

Edit: Also, if you ever feel the need to talk to someone, feel free to PM me anytime. Again, stay strong bro.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 1:06 am
by wiggins
I'll pray.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 10:28 am
by Hitokiri
agasfas wrote: Regardless of how your mom made your sister angry she should not ever hit your mother under any circumstances.


Thanks so much and everything has settled down. My dad is talking to my sister as we speak and he is being very calm about it. I just wanted to highlight on why she this started and it may seem rediculous but this is how my sister is. She didn't want to pik up the clothes from her room. Add that and my mom not allowing my sister to go to a friends house until she did so made her snap somehow. She hates being told what to do and if she doesn't want to, nothing will change her mind. So I can see why my mom got extremely upset cause she was telling my sister to hang up the phone and such and my sister would say "shut up, you're a idiot and I want you to go to hell."

Thanks for the prayers but if you feel lead to, continue prayer cause we still need it.

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 8:38 pm
by Spirit_Wolf8356
I'll be praying for all of you, Hitokiri. *hugs*

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2004 9:10 pm
by Jaltus-bot
I'll be praying for your family.

PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 3:39 am
by TrigunX89
I can sorta relate as well. I have a sister and mother in a similar situation. Thankfully, there haven't been any physical fighting. Words and other actions can still hurt a whole lot though.

Anyways, I'll pray for you and you're family. I hope things get better soon.

PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 12:40 pm
by termyt
Wow. My brother and I hit each other, but we would never raise a hand to one of our parents. Women are scary. OK, I'm sorry for writing that.

Father, I pray your peace reigns in Hitokiri's house hold. Tensions are high, but I know that you are preparing him for the work you need him to do. Father, I pray Hitokiri remains calm, channel Your wisdom through him so that he is a force for healing and strength in his family. Guide them all, Father, in Your will.

Amen.

PostPosted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 4:55 pm
by Rogie
I'll be praying for your family, Hitokiri.