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okay so i dropped out of biology cuz i don't need to take it anymore. i only needed two years of it. and now everyone in that class like totally hates me. i feel so bad. whenever i see one of them, especially my friend Eli who just gives me a mad look and doesn't speak to me, i start to feel like crying. he's mad cuz i asked if he could help me raise my grade in the class before the deadline to turn in the paperwork to drop it. he said no. at first i said yes then thought, what am i thinking i hate science! then i dropped it. now most of them say they miss me and i stink or say nothing at all and just shake their heads at me. i feel so guilty. i mean i was failing and i didn't have to take the class. i feel so bad!

First, I will pray for you.

I would have done the same thing, so please don't feel too guilty. I dropped the business law class that I was going to take at the beginning of last year. I did that because I was not off to a good start in it and it is supposed to be hard to catch up in that class.

You did what was going to be best for you in the long run. The only reason that I could think of why they would be if they didn't understand why you dropped the class. Maybe they feel betrayed or abandoned. I don't know. Are they listening to why you dropped the class? Is there some other way that they might hear you out on your side? Are there other ways that you can point out that you and the ones who say they miss you? If they really miss you, they might be receptive to that.

thanks i don't exactly know what's going on in their minds. i have given all the reasons to them why i dropped.

I know what it feels like to be estranged from your friends. I'll be praying for not only you, but for a renewal in their minds also. Hang in there!

I will pray for you. SOrry to hear your friends are giving you the cold shoulder (sort of speak). But remember, you didn't need the class. Why feel guilty? It's not like you had any obligation to them to take the course anyways. And eventually when you finish High school or what not, y'all may be going your seperate ways (in a sense of going out of state or making new friends). So don't feel guilty, you have no reason to. It's not fair for you that your friends are making feel guilty (or carry the burden) for dropping. Again, I will pray you feel better and that your friends will understand. Hope you feel better soon.

erm....I find this a little weird. Why would the whole class go berserk against you, for dropping a subject? *shakes head* I'm sorry to hear this, I don't see why you should feel bad or put up with such poor attitudes from your so-called friends. (perhaps there is more going on, which you have not revealed) But this really strikes me as a very silly reason to be alienated by a group of ppl.

My friends have always encouraged what is best for me, which includes dropping unnecessary/sucky classes. I'll pray for you and your situation since I think that's the best I can do.

i actaully did tell you all all the details. okay so it wasn't the whole class just like half the class since i basically know everyone in there. well okay so here's the new news my friend eli is back to talking to me. only because when i first saw him i grabbed him by the shoulders and confrunted him telling him that he was making me feel really terrible he said sorry and that he was just teasing me. i said that i didn't like to be teased so now things are better with him. okay so one friend down. jk! nah actually others heard that and said they didn't mean to make me feel terrible they just really liked having me in a class with them so now things are better. thanks every for your prayers they really helped!! ^_^d <----my own thumbs up smilie!

Well, it's good to hear that things are going well. I hate science myself and got out of taking it in college by taking some classes in high school that helped me get it over with.

Good luck with the rest of your studies!

thankies rogie!

i will pray, i know that feeling very well

thanks but everything's better now.

I'm glad your friendships have been restored.

me too!