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*URGENT* Concerning my ex-girlfriend

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 2:44 pm
by Nightshade X
Hi guys. I need you all to pray for my ex-girlfriend. If you want to know her name, please PM me for it. I don't want to cause any incident, in case there's a member on this board who may know her and I in the real world. I don't want word getting out to people who don't need to know.

Anyway, I spoke to her mom today (I'm a friend of the family) and I found out that since I last spoke to her, she's been with people she probably shouldn't have been around, doing stuff she really shouldn't be doing, and being places she shouldn't be. She's been away from her home for two weeks now and now there's a warrant out for her arrest.

She hasn't contacted anyone that either her mom or I know and I'm really worried about her. Please, pray that this situation will be resolved soon. I still have some major feelings for her, so you can imagine what it's doing to me. Whatever may happen, I just want her to be safe. Most of all, pray that God's will be done concerning this.

Thanks for all who will undertake this request. You have my deepest gratitude.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 2:49 pm
by Ssjjvash
I will pray for her.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 3:24 pm
by Jaltus-bot
I will be praying for her.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 4:40 pm
by Rogie
I'll pray for her and for you, Nightshade.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 5:42 pm
by shooraijin
Whoa. I'll keep you and her in prayer.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 5:58 pm
by Spiritsword
I will pray.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 7:06 pm
by Swordguy
wow i will keep her and you in prayer

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 8:02 pm
by Staci
I will most certainly pray for everyone involved in this situation. *hugs*

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 8:18 pm
by Mr. Rogers
will pray for this

PostPosted: Wed Aug 25, 2004 9:06 pm
by Saint Kevin
Sure.

PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2004 12:30 pm
by termyt
It seems overwhelming.

Father, please make Yourself known in this. Grant them peace and help the lost find You again.

PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2004 3:31 pm
by Kinkosami
I'll be praying for you both.

PostPosted: Thu Aug 26, 2004 7:54 pm
by Zane

PostPosted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 8:46 am
by Jman
Diffinitly man.

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 9:36 am
by Savior_Sora
My ex-girlfriend...shes gone downhill to so I know how your feeling...I'll pray for her as well.

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 3:11 pm
by Archan
I will definately pray, be sure to keep us updated.
Also, I will pray that God gives you peace, I can partially relate to how it feels to worry about a person whom yu still have lingering feelings for, it doesn't feel good. Rest assured though that this person has made her choice, God gave her the gift of free will and she chose how she wanted to use this gift. Her fate is in God's hands now, so don't be burdened to much with her situation, if anything be there to support her family. That way you may find confort in each other, and Christ.

God Bless,
Archan

PostPosted: Wed Sep 01, 2004 5:32 am
by Anna Mae
I'll keep your situation in my prayers.

PostPosted: Fri Sep 03, 2004 11:53 am
by Nightshade X
Ok, first I'd like to thank all of you who posted here. I'd even like to thank all who didn't post on the board, but still took it upon themselves to pray. I do feel much, much better about the whole situation, thanks to all of your prayers. I treasure you all. There's no way I could have been able to deal with all of this alone very well. Here's an update on everything:

Nothing. I haven't heard anything yet. No one's called me or anything, so I'm still in the dark about everything. I may be able find out something if I talk to her younger sister, though. I'm usually able to find things out from her even if I don't ask, but beyond that, we're friends anyway. I just have a need to speak with her, you know, see how she's doing.

Thank you all for your prayers. Please keep it up and I will update you all as soon as I get information.

PostPosted: Fri Sep 03, 2004 5:35 pm
by AlBhedNikki
Dont worry sweetie, I'll pray, and keep her in my prayers. :thumb:

PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2004 1:26 am
by Nightshade X
UPDATE: Apparently, she went home a little while ago. It would seem that things are ok again, except that she's now living with a man who's considerably older than her (at least 20 years, from what I've heard so far). I guess she views him as a rescuer from her previous lifestyle. Admittedly, I am a bit jealous. I mean, she could have said something to me at least once... But that's beside the point. I thank God that, at least, she's alive and maybe well. Everything seems to be ok, but her current living situation does seem to present a danger in my eyes. Please pray that if this path does not lead her to where God wants her, that she would know and act on it.

As for me... I'm happy that she's ok. I am a bit jealous... and a tad heartbroken... I guess I wanted so badly to be her hero that my vision got clouded. I ask for God's forgiveness on that one. I've felt so hopelessly attached to her for so long... I guess my affection toward her just grew into something that I couldn't control. Thankfully, our Lord has been working with me and, finally, I was able to fully let go of my misplaced feelings for her. It was hard, but I now recognize that if we are ever meant to be together again (and this is a near-impossibility), now is definitely NOT the time.

I guess this I need a bit more training in the control of his feelings and emotions. Fortunately, our Lord is faithful and patient. He will take as long as it will take to transform me from a dragon to a knight. One day, I will master these emotions. I just pray that day be sooner than later...

Anyway, thanks for all your prayers. I think it's time I stopped complaining long enough for me to thank you all. ^__^

PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2004 1:32 am
by Zane
:) (last comment) Thats cool Nightshade, Ill pray, I hope you'll get a chance to say hi to her and have a chat, (if thats what u want). "All things work out for those who love the Lord" its says somewhere in Romans?? Ask the Swordguy he'll be able to tell u.
God Bless.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 21, 2004 8:17 am
by Nightshade X
I saw her last weekend. I was able to talk to her... and the walls of my heart were instantly shattered. It was a very emotional time (meaning I cried, and I almost never cry for anything), and I'm very thankful to God for that time He gave me with her, as short as it was.

Sadly, many of my suspicions have been confirmed, even some I haven't even thought of, and everyone around her can see it. Please... I ask that you keep her in your prayers. She doesn't think she's worthy of something better than what she's going through, but she is. Many have almost completely written her off as a lost cause but, I will never because I know what she is capable of. This fight is not yet over for me. That's what I feel the Lord is saying to me at this time.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 21, 2004 8:29 am
by termyt
Go, be her hero, Nightshade X. And what I mean is stand by her. Don't give up. Be there for her and correct her when she's wrong. Then you will be the hero she needs.

PostPosted: Mon Sep 27, 2004 10:33 pm
by c.t.,girl
ya know i'm always praying for ya.